I read how to get listed and exchange your website link  
but no where did it say where to do this  
or where their link is to ad to your site, so you can get approval and start having the privilege to have your site in their ads hpyerlink ?

I would be greatful for any advice or instructions

this is a great site but not the most user friendly  

thanks hugs, Sadie

The TER banners link is found at the bottom of the "Provider ad posting guidelines" which is in the self help center. I have provided the link here to help you out, but I would suggest you check out the Self Help Center anyway if you haven't already. There is a lot of good info there.

Good luck. Hope this works for you. Come back when you have more questions. This is the place to ask.

Thank you so much for taking the time to answer me.
 big Hugs XXX Sadie