So im going to meet my first provider soon. She is going to fly to my location, and i am going to pick her up at the airport i assume. If i do, should i have the donation in the car or just have it in the place im staying at?

at the place where you are staying. That's where the ladies usually expect it to be and there shouldn't be any misunderstandings.  Just make sure it is in plain sight.

Reonation

Have the donation at where you are staying at.  Don't give it to her in the car.

put the donation in it. Then seal it and put her name on the front, like you would if it was her birthday. Leave the card in the car (perhaps under your seat or in the glove box), as you won't need to give it to her while she's waiting for her luggage. After everything's squirreled away, just give her the card. She may open it there and then, or she may wait.

I never accept my "gifts" upfront, for it's too impersonal. I am more concentrated on his needs first and foremost! Unless she specifies on her website, that the funds need to be upfront, wait until your time with her ends, to give her her gift Just a suggestion..

Mel

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I'm not saying it can't wait until afterwards. But she's flying in to see him, so I figured it was going to be an extended date. It's also his first time. If that were me, I'd like her to know that everything's on the up and up. A sealed card leaves everything in her hands. She doesn't have to open it then and there if she doesn't want to.