how do i post and ad at ter?

Click on TER's Instruction Manual.

You must be TER approved to post an ad.  Contact tech support and they can help.

Other than the timing of ads, their problematic aspect is the link!

Yes TER has a site review process, but it is not required for for gals to post ads.

There are three acceptable links a gal can put in her ad:

1) A link to her TER review profile is ALWAYS acceptable.

2) Linking to her ad at an escort mall, like Eros and Cityvibe (there are others, both national, regional and local) is allowed, so long as said mall isn't also escort discussion and/or review site, such as escorts.com.

3) A link to her own website is always most welcome, provided that the TER badge or banner, with a working link back to TER, appears on one of the first two pages, ie. the splash adult content warning, or the site's homepage.