Hi, haven't used a provider in a number of years.  thinking about trying one out again.  questions -- she has 2 acronyms i'm not familiar with.  CORE and FSFBSM.  I think FSFBSM is full service full body SM??  CORE-have no idea.  can anyone help here?

also, how do you provide references if you're essentially new or just re-entering the hobby?

take a look at the top of the page; there is a section on newbies and acronyms.  Has all the information you will need to get started.

In terms of references, there are providers who will take a business phone number and other information to verify that you are not le if you explain that you have no references.

The FSFBSM seems to be a combination of FS (full service, i.e. intercourse) with massage (Full Body Sensual Massage, usually meaning a hand job or something similar.)

The CORE has me perplexed.  I just ran down several slang and urban dictionaries and found nothing.

CO usually means "come on"  (as in ejaculate on)

RE could mean "rear end"  So it would be describing a sex act where you get to slide your penis on her butt crack and come on it, an act usually described as "Italian".

You need to beat the bushes to find a provider who will accept you based on personal information only and/or join one of the many screening service out there like Room Service.

Be polite and explain your situation and eventually you will find a provider who will see you.  Once you have a reference, then you can go from there.