is it better not to masturbate for a few days before seeing a providor to longer or for more pops, or is there any way to get more pops or last longer, no pills, any help i appreciate it

Choose providers who confirm multiple pops OK. "Saving up" before a session will get you a bigger first pop, but it won't guarantee a second....  If the first one is "the easy one," you will probably last longer going for #2 and #3. Just remember to enjoy that first one, 'cause YMMV.
 I think the longer we hobby, the longer we last.

It's a pain but I think the guy above hit it on the nose, you get better the more you do it.  Strange thing is, when used to hit the massage parlors in Philly, I could never pop when I had two girls at the same time.   It was easier for me to distract myself with one while the other was being "occupied."  Maybe two girls is the answer!  Of course in Philly that only cost $300 but in LA I'm sure it costs $500+

Yes this was totally useless.

Good luck.

Here is a site that discusses how to last longer.

http://www.sexhealth.org/problems/premature.shtml

Actually, If I know the provider (usually at an AMP) I'll put on one of the new Trojans (with climax control) in the shower. It takes a minute to get working. On the flip, we have a laugh when they she "I'm Prepared" but then I can last a long time. I have done this about 10 times with great sucsess.

Well, I don't know if this method will work for you or not, but it works every time for me. If I want to last a long time on a date, all I have to do is maturbate before I leave the house. The second time is always the charm for me.