so, i visited backpage.com.  is this site legit or full of scams?  

what should i think of independent providers that don't verify?

BP is a legit site, but all the girls that post there may not be.  If she has not reviews, or you cannot find someone who has seen her, forget her.  There are plenty of girls on this site and others that will blow your mind away to waste time chasing girls that will only fuck you in not a nice way....

PM me if you want.

Swim

always make me think of two things...

LE and just wants you to show up so they make it easy.

or

A rip off that has some kind of "backup" so she isn't afraid of what you might do.

I know that isn't always the case, but it the  first two things I think of.

I have to agree that BP is the new CL and is now mostly scam artists and potentially LE.

But don't think that because we dont' ask for verification info, that we're not verifying.  All I needd is a visit to my site, a phone call, or an email and your being verified already.  


Thanks

to make sure the pics aren't fake/stolen/stock. Please refer to the link.

Danger, Will Robinson, Danger, Danger!  

Are you willing to cruise around in the seedy part of town looking for a street ho, looking to strike gold?  If so, CL, BP, and their ilk are your place to be.  Beware, though, of scams, rip-offs, and LE...the risk is greatly magnified there!

Providers who don't verify aren't necessarily a red flag, as the best will do so without bringing attention to you...

How is that again?  I'm not challenging you but I would like to know how you can verify me off a visit to your site, a phone call (unless you to a full reverse directory check which won't happen because I use a throw-away cell), or an email from a hotmail account I just set up.
It's just as important to me that you verify me as it is that you insist on protection.  If you are not careful of your own safety my own is jeopardized.