Hey everyone !
I signed up a few months ago and just recently started coming on here more often.
Im amazed by all the information that is on here !!! Omg It was alittle overwhelming at first but Im glad I'm finally on here.
I had a few reviews that I asked to have linked to my username. I looked through the my reviews section and couldn't find them there. How would I know if they are linked to my username?
Also should a provider sign up for the VIP membership or would it not be that useful for me ?
Thank you
xoxo Melanie

I'm not an expert at your questions, but there is info regarding linking your reviews in the self help center. You are NOT currently linked, or else on your post, under your username, you would see a link to them titled "See my TER reviews".

Your reviews are not linked. If they were, there would be a line under your username when you post that says, "see my reviews." It is a link that would take people directly to your profile. What you need to do is go to reviews and search for your reviews under your provider name, phone number, etc., then use the "contact us" button and ask again to have it linked to your username. You can also email them at [email protected]
You may need to prove it's you. If you used the same email address when you signed up here that is also on your review profile, that makes it easy for them to know you are the same person.

As for VIP, once you do the link you will get "free limited provider VIP." This will allow you to read your own reviews (but not other ladies) and use the PM system. However paying for VIP will give you access to more VIP features such as searches, and Being able to read all reviews. Whether it is worth it or not, only you can decide. For hobbyists (especially newbies) VIP is essential to do the proper research. For providers it can be a valuable tool, and just another business expense, but many providers don't find it essential. The limited VIP may be enough for you. I would suggest you sign up for the monthly service just to try it out, then you can always cancel ituf you find you don't need it.

Read the "self help center" also
Good luck.

Yes, providers should sign up for VIP so you have access to reviews. You don't want guys writing things about you that are bs, so having VIP allows you to read your reviews and the reviews of other men to see if you might want to pass on them, for whatever reason.

If you can find the reviews posted for you, send those links to TER admin. through the "Contact Us" tab, and they should be able to link them for you. I am not sure of the exact process because I had a profile before I had a username, but they will be able to break it down for you.

Best of luck!

Last time I spent an hour typing in a whole bunch of crap, and down the thread swim posts "I can't believe somebody finally mentioned the self help center"