read the Self-Help Manual (link on top of this page) and then several pages here on the Newbie Board so you can understand how the game is played.  

As a newbie, always see well-reviewed ladies which is explained in more detail in multiple threads here.

Hola everyone,

I'm Nicholas, a newbie and already loving it in this community. Just making a fast introduction

Welcome to TER. The Self-Help Center is a newbies best friend. Study it and it will save you drama. Have fun.