Hello to all,

I am new to TER, but have seen a few providers around town and figured i'd give this a whirl. I have a young lady that I would like to write a review about, but don't want to offend her (as I would like to see her again.) Should I contact her first, any tips for newbies?

Thanks!

Cruisin.

You don't have to ask a provider permission to write a review. Some hobbyists do ask before writing one, but it is not necessary. The exception is if a lady specifically says she does not want reviews, then you should honor her wishes unless there was something bad (bait and switch, upsell, really bad service etc) that you feel you should share with other hobbyists.

It is totally up to you if you want to ask her first, or if you just want to submit it, and then inform her after it is approved, or just submit it and let her discover it herself.

Your lady in question already has reviews here, so you will just be adding to her reviews. If she had none, then you would be creating her profile and submitting the first review.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=193721

and then honor her choice. When I do write a review, I send it to the woman before i hit submit so that she can see it first and give me feedback.
first for her feedback.

i never do..these girls love surprises..some actually look forward to it..

However, I do ask if she wants one.  If not, ok, if she does, then I do it.  I am honest in it, and one provider did ask if I would send it to her first, and I said no.  However, she loved it...go figure....

Swim

I presume I will be speaking with her! I would like to surprise her and let her discover it on her own- but don't want to get blacklisted (her website suggests you should ask in advance.)

I hope she is willing to see me (recommend me) again after this, don't want to offend, but like the idea of reviews...

Cruisin.