I will not fuck a woman that I can't eat out.
I read tons of review. about 80% of reviewers reported DATY. I also enjoy this but my gum bleeds sometimes. I'm wondering how much is the chance of contracting a STD through DATY?
I read dozens of articles about STD. But I want to hear the opinions from hobbyists here. Please share your opinions.
Thanks!
pleasuring her. IMHO, my dates are not just about me, but I love pleasuring her as well.
Swim
agreed. I like your attitude. Making woman happy is one pleasure of having sex.
have you ever been caught with any sort of STD after you started this hobby ?
Swim
no I have not. Just to be safe, I have my doc do a blood check on my periodically.
Swim
So If you don't feel comfortable do not do it... You can have fun with other activities, but keep in mind that providers get tested often (more than civilians I would say) so we are a population with low incidence of STDs being that we get tested, take precautions and avoid risky situations.
Hi Palomam, thanks for your input. From what you have seen or heard in this community, for those providers who does screening and have a decent ad (NOT those only with BP pictures taken in a motel), how much percentage of them have STD? would you mind giving a rough estimate? 5%? 10%? If tested positive, would they stop until healed ?
by the way, your website looks nice. so bad that you are not in Chicago.
What do you think the odds are of catching something from a random girl you pick up at a bar who may have had unprotected sex with the last 10 guys she went home with...I would feel safer with Paloma.
It is a very hard question to know because I suspect providers have not been a subject of an STD survey or a epidemiological study however, I would say, if safe practices are in place, your chances of catching something from one of us is almost zero (remember, we have high safety standards to protect our health as well as yours). Remember, every activity we perform in life comes with risks and rewards, it is up to us to minimize the risk and fully enjoy the rewards.
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Thank you, Palomam.
I'm trying build my screening procedure to pick responsible providers (by responsible, I mean practice safety standard, screen clients, and test at a regular basis). I have a few rules here, would you mind adding a bit more suggestions? And also please correct me if I'm wrong. By the way, I'm not trying to stereotype anything. I apologize if my post offended anyone.
1, don't see a provider that offer anal service, even with good reviews on TER
2, if rate is below $200/hr, no go
3, no screening, no go
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The rate has nothing to do with the quality of the provider, remember, the provider decides the rate based on numerous factors: location, personal goals, availability, advertising dollars willing to spend, travel expenses, services etc.. Some providers would rather see two guys and charge $500 per hour vs. another girl that may see 5 for $200 because she wants to or due to competition, supply and demand in her area, her business model etc. A very fundamental part is what her name, persona, brand tells you about who she is, her phone demeanor, how she replies to your emails, her attitude nevertheless, we could go on forever just to pick a few qualities that make up great providers but to me screening is the most important part out all your rules, what if she charges $500 an hour, does not offer Greek and has killer pictures as well as great reviews but she does not make you feel at ease on the phone by inquiring enough about you to be safe?.
My suggestion to you is to stick to well reviewed providers who are consistent, professional, and reputable. Your main concern should be your safety, everything else is an added bonus
I will not fuck a woman that I can't eat out.
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interesting
You are worried about catching sonething from her, which is possible, but there is also her big risk of catching something from you. I can't imagine any lady allowing you to DATY if she knows your gums are bleeding!
Common advice is to not even brush your teeth or floss right before a meeting, in case you cause even minor bleeding.
My gums bleed after using high pressure water floss or brush too hard. But isn't this a normal situation? You stay in the room with dry air for a day, then you probably got some cracks on your lips; or you might bite yourself when you're eating. There are so many things that can get you a wound in your mouth.
Don't floss the day before a meet (no high pressure water floss and no thread floss), and gently use a SOFT toothbrush. This gives you ~24 hours to clot any minor cuts and abrasions. Small sacrifice to keep yourself and others safer, especially since you know that you are a bleeder.
Thank you all guys for your suggestions. This site is really helpful.
I guess what I will do is to make sure no wounds in the mouth before every date.
If your gums bleed, that is something a provider would like to know. You cannot make an informed decision if you don't have all the facts. Part of protecting yourself against STIs is making smart and healthy choices. If you have sex, you are at risk for catching an STI, that's just a fact of life now a days. The best thing you can do to protect yourself and your partner is to use a barrier. As suggested, a dental dam or no microwavable saran wrap, or even cut a condom open.
always DATY. I only will meet providers that are DATY friendly. ;P