sends in enough light to see and still be romantic.

At night, leaving the light by the entry door on is usually enough.

Ok so in one of my reviews...although it was a good review he mentioned that I had too many lights on.
I am asking you guys well because I guess it is your oppinion that kinda counts...lol

In my brain I am thinking...welll they are going to want to be able to see me and I dont want to apeear that I am trying to keep it dark for any reasons etc etc.  

So should i have a few lights on by entrance (usually incall at a hotel)
and then after the icebreaker (which is usually greeting them with a nice LFK) and right before moving to the bed should i shut off a light or two?

Hope it doesnt sound like a stupid question but my brain sorta over analizes things (expect I cant get it to spell for shit)

Any help would be appreciated. Thnx

Xoxo
Cherry

nor do I want the room to be lit up like a Christmas tree either.  Maybe a small bedside light and some candles.  If it's a hotel room, maybe just the desk light with the candles.  Candles are always a nice touch.

Swim

Every hobbyists is different, some might want the lights out, others might like em all on. Just ask.
I like it when the provider has only candles burning in the bedroom and Pandora playing on her ipad.

I do use a candle... i guess a few more wouldnt hurt. I love candles

They smell good and give a nice blow...er...glow...

xoxo

if the lighting is OK or what would he like changed (more or less light).  For me, I prefer candlelight with some other indirect lighting coming from the hallway or bathroom.  This way there is some light to see what I'm enjoying.

but I like the room to be well lit as long as it's free of glare. IMO, candles, scents and music are variables that providers should not assume are okay for every client.

My response would be just the opposite. I don't like candle light at all and like a fairly bright room.  I like to admire a naked lady and at my age a dimly lit room means I don't get to see as much so I would be disappointed.  Not a glaring bright but definitely a dimly lit room is a big turn off for me. This is one of the areas that you will get complaints no matter what you do unless you attempt to customize it for the client. While for regular customers as you get to know them you can change to what they like, that is sometimes harder with new customers. So if you like it well lit then keep it that way or ask the customer. The it was too bright comment while it may seem negative for some would be a big plus for me. I have had a lady turn off the over bed lamps as it bothered her, so I had her turn on the lamps on the other side of the room so the room would be bright enough a happy compromise.
It is good your reading your reviews and trying to improve, but it is very hard to be perfect for everyone and you will always get comments about things that some clients don't like, but not necessarily all clients. You  talk too much, your too quiet, you jumped his bones as he walked in the door, I loved talking to put me at ease first. I will put comments in reviews sometimes not because it was a no go for me but because I know its important information for other guys. So you need to be true to yourself first. Also here is where a provider having paid for full VIP can help. Not only check your reviews but the reviews of other ladies he has reviewed. I have seen a hobbyist complain of the same things with 90% of his reviews, that to me means he doesn't take time to research first.

ok so it is different for everyone.. makes sense.

I try to make it as comfortable and inviting as possible. And asking them would be a good idea too.

I usually have music playing too... not like blaring or anything but u know...

anywyas thanks for the tips. I just want to make sure IM doing everything right.  

xoxo
Cherry

might enjoy that but I would prefer to be discrete.  Probably the first time in years I have disagreed with mrfisher.

I want to be able to see the girl doing what she does.  Also, a too-dark room makes me wonder what flaw she's trying to hide.  I saw a really hot lady a couple of months ago but she had the room so dark I couldn't see what was going on and had to ask several times for her to keep giving us more light.  I liked her but it was a pain in the ass.

After all, you want to try to make him look good to both of you (which is the bigger challenge), in addition to showing off your fabulous self.

zig

I do like to see your face and body. I like the lights on upon entering the apartment/motel room/suite, etc. Doesn't have to be real bright but enough to see you. In the bedroom I may want all the lights on, I may want low or no lights with candles. I will ask for more or less light as the mood strikes me. I often ask the lady to shower with me. I like the bathroom well lite. I am unabashed about wanting to see ALL of you. Usually though, I like the lights to be down low.

I'm guessing mrfisher meant 6" (inches) not 6' (feet)

Yes 6' would pretty much be an uncovered window.

Really 1/2 light or 3/4 light is good.  Guys are visual...  can't be visual in total darkness.  Light can be done with the blinds / curtains depending on what type they are.  Usually electric lights are on or off...   If lighting is soft, a few candles can be nice...  but keep them on a flame proof surface & away from flamibles.  
I saw one spectacular provider in her GFE fantasy suite...  lots of lace curtains & candles...  gave me the creeps!  I heard later that some action disloged a filmsy curtain & it ignited.  Fortunately the couple was able to tear it down & extinguish it on their own.  Too close for comfort.  
I would have the room lighting set in advance, when you have time to adjust it.  If it's a hotel, I'd have the whole room soft lighted, once the hall door closes, you're in the mood.

My biggest issue is music...  necessary for cover noise...  but too loud or distracting.  My suggestion is place the music on the end of the dresser AIMED toward the door.  Makes it softer in the room and more insulating from the outside.  
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