Newbie - FAQ
great suggestions
I am newbie friendly but I still do a little screening.
Anyway wanted to ad - READ the website / ad - dont just look at the pictures and call her.
You had to read to find her number, so actually read the words. if the lady says "Age 30+" and you are 21, dont assume she will see you. It might be her comfort level not to see anyone under the age of 30, dont take it personally and dont expect her to make an exception for you because you are so goodlooking, have a 12 inch cock, know how to eat pussy or whatever.
If her website indicates that she only offers incall, dont ask her to come and see you.
We put the information out there, we want you to read it.
Also do not call or email and expect a freebie. If you are looking for a freebie, dont answer escort ads, try a dating site.
Sorry, I have to rant but also inform some newbies, myself included, what not to do when contacting that special provider you'd like to see. There is a certain flow that needs to take place and being overzealous can turn downright creepy which will thwart your attempts of having a great time with a provider. My suggestion? JO to her website/ ad. I won't mind, you can do it privately and fantasize about what it's going to be like. And maybe releasing some of that built up pressure will help you make a better first impression. I get it. We all have to start somewhere but NEWBIES please DO NOT do the following to a provider:
1. Ask for services. We will not see you.
2. Ask how much. We will not see you.
3. Give out BP or unverifiable ladies as a reference. We will not see you.
4. Call repeatedly when we are checking references, it takes time for us to contact one lady and it takes time for her to answer back. We will not see you any sooner!
5. Refuse to join Date-Check or P-411 because you don't want your info out there. We will not see you.
6. Make a bogus TER account with NO review history. Just because you can name drop a site or some lingo doesn't get you the green light. We will not see you.
7. Ask to see us right away and have no regards to scheduling an appointment and that there may be other gentlemen waiting or occupying our time NOW. Just because you stumbled on our ad, we will not see you, at least NOT right now.
JO and call me later. Preferably after you've gotten verified or gained some experience. And for providers that are newbie friendly, you're my ANGEL, I don't know how you do it! KUDOS to you! Newbies, hang in there, it'll get better!
I am newbie friendly but I still do a little screening.
Anyway wanted to ad - READ the website / ad - dont just look at the pictures and call her.
You had to read to find her number, so actually read the words. if the lady says "Age 30+" and you are 21, dont assume she will see you. It might be her comfort level not to see anyone under the age of 30, dont take it personally and dont expect her to make an exception for you because you are so goodlooking, have a 12 inch cock, know how to eat pussy or whatever.
If her website indicates that she only offers incall, dont ask her to come and see you.
We put the information out there, we want you to read it.
Also do not call or email and expect a freebie. If you are looking for a freebie, dont answer escort ads, try a dating site.
Yes! OMG I totally forgot, it pays to READ everything, JO, then call. Perfect.
Not sure about you Naomi, but I get a bunch of wanna be "studs" sending me pics of their sausage, and frankly, I'm a vegetarian. I guess they thought if they impressed me enough I'd offer up a freebie or maybe run away with them, I haven't figured that one out just yet.
you should note that even if you follow all of that advice, and act professionally, even if the lady is well-reviewed...they still might not see you.
As I posted on another board today, got stood up last night for appt for today. Had provided references weeks in advance, told I was "locked in", waited to get the info via e-mail the night before, didn't, e-mailed provider to ask for details by the morning, got a text saying she wasn't in town and "missed her plane." Even after she had posted her touring ad two days before saying she was in town. She offered to "reschedule", but when I texted her back...no response.
Lesson for the newbies, or even those that have seen a few providers, you can do everything right and still not be seen. You can be a perfect gentleman, but there are just some flakes out there, and you can only avoid them through trial and error.
job with the business end of P4P.
Why not ask creeps and weirdos to skip steps 1 - 7 and just proceed to JO and leave you alone in the first place?
i wholeheartedly agree..as a followup question to you..i am not a newbie..i have been hobbying for two years..i have references galore..am on p411 etc...a new provider i just contacted still wants my place of employment and work number despite all i have given her..i havent given them out for years now and feel uncomfortable doing it..question? do i move on and forget her? or simply comply with all she is asking for?
You either move on and forget about her or, you comply with her wishes.
Only you can decide which one.
Some ladies screen lightly and some screen heavily. It is their right to screen how they see fit. It is your right to comply or see someone else!
Now since you already said you are uncomfortable doing it, sounds like you have your answer!
Screening is our four play! Anything you can do to make us happy before we meet, just think of how much better it'll be after we meet!
As far as the newbie, consider this: We don't just call up Date-Check or P411 and say hey, I'm Barbara Blowjob, certified provider here, verify me! We have a process to go through too so this "newbie" may not have all her certifiable verifiable credentials just yet to check out your stinking P411 info. So, if she feels comfortable calling your job to say your llama is sick and she needed to let you know, and then hangs up when you answer your extension, well just think of how much fun it'll be when you're DATY and your chin is dirty. Just a thought. Thank you for understanding.
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