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Dallas_texan 683 reads
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I don't get #3. Are you saying never go to a providers Incall?

santinonj19861733 reads

Any good ideas on how to avoid the authorities?

Thanks

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jelloman42999 reads

Stick to providers who have been reviewed and verified on TER, use a verification site like P411 or DateCheck, and walk away from anything that makes you uncomfortable...

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ThePeopleRule729 reads

Do not respond to a Craigslist like the one I just posted on the San Diego Discussion Board.

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Zangari856 reads

I posted the following on the Legal Corner about a year ago.  --z  

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 What follows is what I do to avoid LE.  These are just my rules, quirks, & prejudices.  I hope it helps.    
   
 1.  Screening Service = Yes:  don't see anyone who's not on your screening service.    
   
 2.  TER = Yes;  a great source of info.  Read your local boards & stay informed.    
   
 3.   Her Incall = No.   You always get the room.  You always control the space.  Does this mean that you'll miss some fantastic touring providers?  Yes.      
   
 4.  Backpage = No.  There are experienced guys on TER who use it.  But where I live, Backpage = Sting Central.    
   
 5.  ATF = Yes.  The fewer people you see, the lower your risk.    
   
 6. Sugar = Yes.   The good news: it's legal & SBs are smoking hot.  The bad news:  it's expensive & SBs are often selective.  So you typically don't get laid immediately.  If getting busted will ruin you,  then this is your only option.    
   
 7.  Trust your instincts.  Whenever a guy posts about getting busted, he usually mentions that something didn't feel right about the play.  When my trick knee twitches, I walk away.    
   
 8.  STFU.  If someone starts asking questions,  you don't have answers.    
   
 9.  A provider with a "driver" or "assistant"  = No.  If she brings in a third party, cancel immediately.      
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Posted By: Zangari
I posted the following on the Legal Corner about a year ago.  --z    
 
  5.  ATF = Yes.  The fewer people you see, the lower your risk.      
     
  6. Sugar = Yes.   The good news: it's legal & SBs are smoking hot.  The bad news:  it's expensive & SBs are often selective.  So you typically don't get laid immediately.  If getting busted will ruin you,  then this is your only option.    
     
  7.  Trust your instincts.  Whenever a guy posts about getting busted, he usually mentions that something didn't feel right about the play.  When my trick knee twitches, I walk away.    
     
  8.  STFU.  If someone starts asking questions,  you don't have answers.  
 
What is ATF and Sugar?

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Posted By: santinonj1986
 What is ATF and Sugar?
 Ah, ok.  It is the newbie board.  

 ATF = "All Time Favorite" Provider.  The Provider that you see more than any other.  

 Sugar = Sugar Baby.  On average, she's younger & more expensive than a provider.   You see her on a regular basis & pay her an "allowance" rather than by the hour.  

 Be careful.  You can spend a lot of money on the two items above.  There's a TER acronym guide (and other FAQS) that you can check by clicking on the life preserver icon at the top of this board.   --z

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Seductivekelly516 reads

I agree with everything..however due to a bad stalker experience i had,for outcalls ive resorted to using uber.
Heres my reasoning.Uber provides a time stamp of where and when i got dropped off,even if offocials cant find my phone incase something were to happen..the copy of my reciept goes to my gmaol account..As a female i feel as though having an uber driver provides proof of my whereabouts incase i were to go missing...cant call moms and say hay im going to such and such house..just saying

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Dallas_texan684 reads

I don't get #3. Are you saying never go to a providers Incall?

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Zangari550 reads

Posted By: Dallas_texan
I don't get #3. Are you saying never go to a providers Incall?
 If you want to reduce your risk, then you always get the room.  Particularly when meeting someone new.  Think about it: if you're breaking the law, do you really want to walk blindly into a hotel room.  Most stings rely on you doing exactly that.  Getting the room is more expensive for you, but here's what you're buying: much lower risk.    
   
 When I started on P411, I did go to a few provider incalls.  And I was always as nervous as a cat. My ATF remembered the first time I walked into her incall:  "You ignored me and checked out my room.  You even looked in my shower.  I was wondering who you were looking for."   lol --z

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Posted By: Zangari
I was always as nervous as a cat.
Some nervous cats are really mellow. This cat is fine with incall at major locations. This cat doesn't want to risk getting fleas from the flea bag locations

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Posted By: santinonj1986
Any good ideas on how to avoid the authorities?  
   
 Thanks

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MILFCARESSA550 reads

Make sure she screens you and be ready to offer her the tools she needs to do that whether it is direct or you registering on a site.  Once you have seen a few well reviewed ladies, this all gets easier.  Independents are easier for obtaining future references...yet once you get through an agency's screens, you will have more to choose from so I suppose that is a choice on your part. (ask the guys what they think when it comes to this)

If the provider starts to suggest services, etc...cease convo immediately.

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