I am about as newbie as possible. I broke the ice today with a beautiful lady at an Asian massage parlor (AMP). This AMP is located in Rhode Island so full service is offered routinely. But this would apply to any AMP, and might apply somewhat to agency girls.

Go during the Superbowl! Tough choice, I know. But I did virtually that today during the playoff game. When I arrived there was only one other car in the parking area for this AMP. The girl I got was a knockout in looks, and a true gem in every way, perfect for a newbie. I'm sure she was their top gal, and might have been busy any other time.

So choose, ... Superbowl, or Superball!

By the way, full-service massage parlors are a great way to enter the hobby. No verification hassles and, judging from the reviews, overall, a good experience. Other opinions are most welcome here.

you'll have the trifecta!

Full service massage parlors are a good place to meet LE too .I guess I do not have the brass balls to go to them

I have been a provider for only a couple mos and if I was a hobbyist, I would not chance it.  Stick to providers that have Ter reviews and make sure they screen you.  Don't just offer the advise, wait and follow their direction.  If you get asked for your full name, employment number, references, handles on any of the sites- then you are good to go and you should feel confident they are safe.  

Good luck

I have seen mentions of these types of screening steps. Would you or someone else discuss further. Makes me paranoid to give so much info to someone I have never met.

Especially since it might them fall into the wrong hands in the future should something unfortunate happen to the provider.

Thanks. I'm very new so forgive me.

I understand there might be some concern about meeting law enforcement (LE) at a massage parlor. Rhode Island seems to be an exception in that indoor prostitution is not considered a crime.

The particular AMP I went to was reviewed extensively and quite favorably here in TER. I am self-employed, and this was my very first time. Verification would not be so easy for me. After the first 15 minutes bathing and massaging a naked client, the provider knows all she needs to know to decide whether or not to offer further services. That, to me, trumps having a workplace phone number. Please correct me if I'm wrong.

My original premise stands: if you want the best choice of providers pick a date and time when everyone else stays home; World Series, Superbowl, American Idol finals, etc. (Just kidding about American Idol.)

There are different ways we screen a potential client and its each providers choice.  I have a few ways and it really just depends on the situation and gut instinct.

#1 You must provide legal first and last name, when you meet you will show your id so we can verify who you said you were.

#2 Join date-check.com or preferred411.com.  Yes you have to pay for these sites, but once you give them the information and you get verified your personal information is destroyed.  Then you get a client id number and the provider can verify you that way

#3 Provide references of other providers you have seen. Their numbers, web addresses, cell numbers so that they can be called, etc.  This is probably the easiest-however not in all cases can one provider reach the other.

#4 Provide your employment co name and phone number.  I then call and am very discreet- hey maybe I am the nurse at the Drs. office verifying your appt. tomorrow. This is done with class and discreetness, plus I don't keep the information as there is no reason to.

#5 Pick a provider that has reviews on Ter. These women with high rates are generally high class and will treat you with respect, as what we expect from our visitors.

Hope this helps you out.

Helpful! Thank you.