If you're new at this, congratulations. If you're doing it for the right reasons, it can be a real blast and lot's of fun.

Something to think about before you get into writing reviews (which you'll most likely want to) that will help you down the road.
Keep the private stuff to yourself.

You set something up and contract for a certain amount of time and services expected based on your research. Now, sometimes, things happen outside those normal parameters. You might get a service not normally on her menu. You might get extra time. You might find yourself having dinner or drinks after....just because.
If you do.....STFU about it and keep it to yourself and out of the review.
Why?
Short answer is because to put it in the review accomplishes nothing other than you trying to make yourself sound special to people who read it (do you really need that ego stroke...or are you a man?) and you put the gal in a bad situation moving forward.
If she spends extra time, and you write about it, every swinging-dick fat smelly asshat after you will expect the same thing. If they don't get it....they just might write a bad review because they are pissed. Does she deserve that?
If a lady does *anything* outside the understood norm.....just enjoy it for that moment in time because that's all it is. It doesn't mean she'll do it for everyone. It doesn't mean that she'll even do it for you again. Her body, her time, her choice. That's how it works.....like it or not.

If someone does something special for you...why would you want to tell everyone? What it does is make the life of the person who was nice to you, more difficult. This is one way to guarantee that that person, and others, will never do anything nice for you again.
Only an asshole posts "we went way over time"...or other such nonsense.
The best thing you can do to repay the kindness you were shown....is to have enough respect to keep it to yourself.

It's far too late to get this into the heads of some of the dumbass 'established' guys around here who do this dumb crap all the time.....but hopefully some of the new guys can start with some smarts and respect.

Good luck...and have fun.

I have said this myself in the past. I never understand why guys do that shit. And I just read a new review the other day, that did just that again. I almost posted what you just said. (maybe you saw the same review. Lol) Some guy described the session, and the girl, and gave her high marks, the review was pretty good, but then at the end he added "she spent three exta hours with me!" I see shit like that and just scratch my head. "Why the fuck would you do that?" Now every shmuck is going to expect extra time.

I think it's funny when I read reviews and the guy HAS to say "yeah... I made her cum a few times while DATY." Or something around those lines. Definitely stroking their own ego.

However, if the item or service is "off the menu" or YMMV, then best to leave it out of the review, lest the girl get bombarded with requests for that service all the time.

Bottom line is that we are all here to transact--we pay for play, and they provide play for pay.  That's it.  Everything else and all the politics and drama are just plain bullshit.  And there's too much of that being displayed on this board many times, in my opinion.  I've certainly been guilty of it.

And I have been guilty of writing the same things myself.

But some of us actually might be that good (not sure I am, honestly, but whatever).  I did have a provider recently who was very, very loud when she came over to my place for an outcall, and she had no reason to be that loud, so I'll choose to say that she came.  

The reason it has relevance to a review is because if she is that loud and it's an issue for you at your place, then wouldn't you want to know about that in a review?  You would rather not her be in the throes of an orgasm (real or fabricated) and then having you nervous as hell, right?

But I do see your point.

Guys will mention how many times they made an escort come, or how many times they came or she put a "magnum" on me, etc  Those type of statements  have little or  no effect on the lady and I sort of expect it from newb reviewers, however,  if they go into detail about off the menu services that's a whole other story. If you hang around long enough in the hobby, you'll be offered plenty OTC time and plenty of other off the menu items. And remember providers read reviews. Do you think a provider is going to take kindly  if you say in the review  "I stayed 3 hrs. longer than I booked"  I doubt she'll be giving you a reference and any prospective escort your looking to see may have second thoughts about seeing you.

I'll add that guys who might review a lady they've seen a number of times, after some trust is established...  that's not what to review!  Review your first experience with her.  That's what the next guy will get when he walks in her door.

"vanilla" about where you met. It is fine to say "... when I knocked on the door at her incall ...."  However, don't say something like "... when I knocked on the door at her upscale hotel in downtown Any city next to the new steak restaurant by the parking garage ...."  And, don't mention a hotel by name such as Hilton, Marriott, Four Seasons, etc.

Great post and great advice. I've always felt this and very protective of good providers. I have met some wonderful ladies and think of them very highly.

definately, keep quiet about where you saw her.  An early date impressed on me to be vague about or meeting place & not to give local LE any tips to go looking for her.   The hobby must be discreet at all times...   potential dates need to know she's legit.  Don't need to know her exact location.  and you don't want to create heat for the hotels.  I bet there's at least one provider working in every hotel in the country...  as we write this!   If it becomes known in the civie world...  not hotel can withstand the plublic pressure...   so they chase the providers out.  We protect each other by limiting the information to minimum necessary.