Normal is whatever the lady decides is normal. When you read the reviews for these gals do they mention CBJ?
If you have legitimate health concerns I would suggest you bring a female condom with you and ask her to wear it OR refrain from DATY. If you are just trying to bust balls because she insists on CBJ I would suggest you not go down that road. It's a head game that you won't win.
I see a gal fairly regularly and it is exactly what you say. I knew it going in as her reviews all said CBJ only. Her rate reflects that and we have a great time. She does not wear a female condom during DATY and I'm fine with that. Her pussy tastes great!
Hi - newbie here. Confused on a 1 thing...Last several providers have had no issue with me DATY without a female condom, but as soon as we get to the BJ, it must be a CBJ. Is this normal? Is this something I should discuss with provider as we are beginning? And if they insist on CBJ, then I should probably insist on covered DATY (CDATY - new term?). thanks
I'm not sure what is normal but each lady is different in what she is comfortable with. You can't usually ask explicit questions before meeting, that's what reviews are there for. So see reviewed ladies and you know what you're getting. As for insiting on covered daty on your part, that your choice. You're not doing daty for the provider, it's for you. And she's not likely to give you a bbbj if you insist on protection for daty. It's all your choice. Although the risk is fairly low on oral, it seems more logical to do daty without protection on a provider who doesn't do bbbj. Theoretically, she is safer than one that does.
Normal is whatever the lady decides is normal. When you read the reviews for these gals do they mention CBJ?
If you have legitimate health concerns I would suggest you bring a female condom with you and ask her to wear it OR refrain from DATY. If you are just trying to bust balls because she insists on CBJ I would suggest you not go down that road. It's a head game that you won't win.
I see a gal fairly regularly and it is exactly what you say. I knew it going in as her reviews all said CBJ only. Her rate reflects that and we have a great time. She does not wear a female condom during DATY and I'm fine with that. Her pussy tastes great!
Why do you think 90 percent of married hobbyist INSIST on bbbj but won't always daty? Yep...they know the risk of 'getting' oral is not as risky as giving it.
I think 90% of married hobbyists wont always do DATY is because they are paying you, and DATY is seen by most as an attempt to give the woman pleasure. Why would most hobbyists pay to give the Provider pleasure?
Posted By: London Rayne
Why do you think 90 percent of married hobbyist INSIST on bbbj but won't always daty? Yep...they know the risk of 'getting' oral is not as risky as giving it.
"she was not gfe." I said 90 percent insist on bbbj, not 90 percent won't daty lol. Why would they pay to give a provider pleasure as well? Because guys paying the big bucks don't just want a blow and go, but a true gfe which includes all that bs. It is funny when you think about it though. For say 150-200 a guy can get a date that is ALL about him, and for twice and three times that he has to spend half his time kissing, cuddling, going down, and listening to her yap bwahahaha. I don't get it either, but hey...I won't be turning down the money lol.
Guys will go spend $100-$200 (or more) at a strip club where they don't even get to lick or even touch anything (the guys who are plopping down $10 for a half-assed lap dance).
By contrast, an extra $100 or so seems like a good deal to be able to DATY, etc. Whatever trips your trigger if you ask me. Like you said, you'll gladly take the money.
Yes it does seem somewhat "backwards." It seems like the more you pay the more you would want the session to be selfish.
Anyway, you are in my area (a couple hours up I55) but I believe my d!ck is too large for you. But if I did see you, would you provide a "selfish" date if that's what i wanted?
Posted By: London Rayne
It is funny when you think about it though. For say 150-200 a guy can get a date that is ALL about him, and for twice and three times that he has to spend half his time kissing, cuddling, going down, and listening to her yap bwahahaha. I don't get it either, but hey...I won't be turning down the money lol.
Gee I don't know guy....maybe if the woman is having a little fun you may have a little more than usual with her. Some dudes like kissing a pussy. Sliding down that belly...... to that little mound....then that first light kiss that reveals a sweet/tart taste of her ....fuck, oh my God.... I gotta go work one out now.... Lets see when are those pictures of London and JLS......?
Posted By: PittPanther
but not about why hobbyists don't do DATY.
I think 90% of married hobbyists wont always do DATY is because they are paying you, and DATY is seen by most as an attempt to give the woman pleasure. Why would most hobbyists pay to give the Provider pleasure?
Posted By: London Rayne
Why do you think 90 percent of married hobbyist INSIST on bbbj but won't always daty? Yep...they know the risk of 'getting' oral is not as risky as giving it.
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