I am constantly giving the gents that come and see me advise on how to protect themselves. Here are just a few pointers and if anyone else wants to add something, please feel free...
1. When you sign into TER or a provider's website....ANYTHING to do with this industry...Clear your browser history each and every time!! Sadly, I just got an email from a dear friend/client who has now been kicked out of the bedroom and laying low. WHY!! He never cleared his history. Luckily, she only got basic information but still. Now this guy is living in hell cause she found out he was searching for escorts.
2. Create a separate email address that no one knows about. Don't use yahoo...they are constantly getting hacked. If you get a gmail account, with the new privacy rules coming out DON'T have a personal and a hobby gmail account as they WILL get linked together. Hushmail is another great free email service and from what I have heard the servers are overseas.
3. Eventually get a hobby phone and hide it with your life!!! I would definitely do this after you have seen a few girls and can substantiate references.
I might add more at another time, but please feel free gents and ladies to add on..
Makenzie
I have had a few married guys have me come to their house for outcall while their wife is out of town.
Can you believe this?
I always park on the street a ways down from the house rather than the driveway. And I have learned not to wear any jewelry at all from losing things at single guy's houses. I don't wear perfume or anything glittery just in case. I don't know they are married until I walk in and see the family pictures everywhere and the distinct woman's touch in decorating.
But still, I'm thinking one stray hair! I asked one guy about that and he said his housekeeper has the same color and length of hair as mine so it's not an issue!
Once I pulled up at 3am and the neighbor was out walking their dog and said "Hi" to me! WTF???
So, I will add if you are going to have outcall at your house while your wife is out of town, be sure to choose an escort that has the same hair color and length as the wife or housekeeper!
Sounds risky? I've had a few guys ask me to come and see them at their house with the wife asleep in the house! "Don't worry, she won't wake up. She takes sleeping pills." Are you kidding me?!? No way. I don't want to end up on Jerry Springer.
Most houses I go to are guys who are single or divorced. The few, rare married ones (this has only happened a couple of times) that do that are just playing with fire it seems to me.
Talk about deleting your history!
Dear Sexy A., First, that story about the wife sleeping is great. However, I respectfully disagree with your other suggestion. I paid for that pussy smell on my face and I want to keep it there. Fuck the wife and her sensitivity. I will just explain that I am using a new cologne. Another added plus of having that pussy smell on my face is watching the response of my dogs to the "new" scent". It drives them crazy.
place of residence. Way too many bad things can happen; maybe not that day/night but just think, she knows where you live and may have somehow want you to $ to keep her quiet. Yes, this is called extortion. What about robbery? Remember, this is a business that is illegal and sometimes, not every time, the providers get financially desparate and will think you an easy mark.
Yes ladies, the same thing applies the other way around. If you don't really know a guy, not a good thing to have him come to your residence.
I couldn't agree less...I've gone to many a gentlemens home, knowing they were married. It would never in a million years cross my mind to extort anyone I have seen. Its called verification...we research our clients well before we see them, or some of us do.
I have as well some that were married some that were not.Being an outcall only provider not every gent I meet is here from out of town some of the gents that I meet are locals.
Many do not mind having me come over to their homes and I have never in all of my years in this business had an issue.Research is key on knowing who a gent/provider is dealing with if you go with reputable providers you should not have a problem regarding outcall to your residence.But,if it is something you are not comfortable with do Incall instead or arrange for a room and have her come to you there.
I won't be a part of it. I would never in a million years bring clients to my personal home and I am sure as hell not going to theirs. You don't know if he has a camera set up, wife, psycho gf on the loose...whatever, and on the flip side research only goes so far.
You really can't research or screen out crazy, as people change each and every day. One day someone could just snap like that, and you never know what they are capable of. Protect yourself and especially your family. Fkin in your wife's bed is just foul...end of story! Women are not all that stupid as some guys might think. Many times they know you're cheating and are just waiting for the right moment to clean out your bank account, then hire an attorney.
omg...I had a guy who did that to me once...said he hobby's in the den and she never comes in there...he also said she takes sleeping pills and never wakes up.
I think all of the old timers here already know that, and the newbies will come and go all the time, so while your intentions of posting here are good, some people will read it today, and tomorrow someone else will be her asking the same questions. Your post will go down the page and no one seems to know how to search or read back. Also, I believe all that information is in the self help center which we always encourage people to read.
And sorry about your friend
It's sad but it happens.
Thanks for posting. ![]()
It's a good idea for any experienced escort to post hints for hobbyists no matter what. Whether it falls off the page is not the point. It can always be found in a search of the board.
while other's try to help just amazes me...
Hey maybe I should repost this every week...just kidding..If I can save just one guy from the heartache then I have accomplished what I was out to do.
Have a wonderful day and play safe!!
Makenzie
You would be amazed how many gents have had their lives destroyed because they trusted a provider with their information. Even those (though less likely) that you would assume are reputable, ie. great reviews, ect. have thrown gents under the bus. What you don't see is at times what chokes you.
I would suggest investing in a verification site such as P411, (my personal favorite) or DateCheck ect.
Safe wishes, & happy hobbying!
Leann
If you use a certain body wash or scented soap, bring some with you to use when you shower at incall. You should go home smelling, just like you did when you left the house. ![]()
If you are not using a hobby phone(which you should)erase your call history and text message history.
You never know who might be looking at that info and after the appointment there is no reason to keep this info.
If you're deep into hobbying, and spend a lot of time on escort sites, and TER...you're bound to forget something on there at least one time.
At wally world....there is an acer netbook for only 248.00, and trac phone for 10.00. You can have all your hobby stuff needed for under 300.00........... 300.00 maybe costly to some, but this at least gives you peace of mind, of not having to worry about anything popping up, or being forgotten on your family's P.C