Some are merely checking your "knucklehead" reputation.

Some are sizing up your aesthetic tastes as well as what you like for service.

Some are looking at how generously you score

Some are discerning whether you have seen TS providers.  

When most providers request a reference from an established provider, they are looking for someone who has credibility within the Adult Community....… some examples of what might be signs of an established provider:
**She has been a provider for several years without having LE involved
**Her web site has a history of being online for at least a year (use this link to check to see how long she has been online: http://www.archive.org/web/web.php )
**She has a history on TER
**She participates on private “Providers Only” boards
**She has a history of co-operating with providers in regards to verification and reference checks
**She has been seen at local social gatherings or M&G


I’ll add this just so you have some insight into a providers logic...... if you have been visiting a provider that is not considered established or have been frequenting providers that might have a less than acceptable level of professionalism then it might not be a good idea to use them as a reference. (*The only reason that I am including this is because there are some providers, such as myself, who can not under any circumstances have any outside drama added to their life.....*)

If a provider has a reputation of drug use, black mailing, extortion, risky behavior...etc.  Then it would be questionable for me to accept a a reference from her.  -That is only my opinion and only a consideration that I make when meeting "new friends" I only include it as a heads up to what some providers might be thinking-

Happy Hobbying……
Know your provider (*and her reputation*)   Kisses ~Tori


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Well reviewed, meaninga well known lady, a reputable lady...a verifiable lady. If I am checking a guys reference, I dont care what services the lady offers..Just that she is a provider that can vouch for the guy in question.

 Hugs, Sidney Starr