I am new to the hobby. Where can I find a list of abbreviations and their meanings? DFK,BBBJ etc I have started reading reviews and knowing what these mean would really help.

i would suggest www.urbandictionary.com but you can find more similar ones

...Self-Help Center. It's on the upper right of most discussion boards under the red & white life preserver. Read there first so whatever you read afterwards will make sense. There is a lnk to many acronyms there & a link to the urban dictionary.

understand what they are for 'educational' purposes, but please don't use them, if ever. Such a silly concept if you ask me, although the gentlemen and some women on this board will disagree with me profusely. LOL

so let me get this straight, if we were together having a good time and I said, "do you like any butt play," that I would never get a second date? Because in your profile it says don't know! Or is it only if we use an acronym that warrants no further dates? But if we talk dirty its okay? Just asking.....

oh Taylor..i love your style..you do tend to over react..OF course these are never discussed prior to a session..they are merely shortened versions of various sex acts to put in reviews simply to shorten them and make it easier to understand..when i write a review..i dont feel like typing " bare back blow job " 15 times..BBBJ suits me fine..

'Excuse me, but can you please lick my balls now'...NO NO NO I don't think so. Talking dirty is natural, not rehearsed, not preached, not an 'order' to service you. Completely 2 different things. You say what comes freely with the moment, it's not pre-determined as to what you 'expect' to happen during any session. Come on Unlucky, you should know this lol. And of course, it all depends on the 'connection' and most importantly, the approach.  

your style too. However, who is the provider here? Do you get the emails from gentlemen like I have when yes, they want desperately to discuss their bucket list of codes of what will happen weeks before any meeting...again NO NO NO LMAO.

No worries, your right I do know better. Besides I do my homework and know what COULD be expected, there is always comfort levels with any date, which YMMV. Sorry, your mileage may very, but to be honest I throw all those acronyms out when we go BCD, Sorry again behind closed doors, each man and each woman is different so I just go with the flow, and try and have a good time as long as I get my BBBJNSNQTC. Dammit I did it again, bareback blow job no stopping no quitting to completion.muahz

ah yes..i see your point..i have never discussed any code before any booked session..i read the reviews and if it happens..it happens naturally as you state..the guys you are talking about are the ones with pre-arranged check lists of activities they for some reason need to mark off to get off..every hobbyist out there has his own little " wish list "..sometimes wishes do come true..sometimes they dont..a wish should never be a demand..BTW..i love to DATY..

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your style too. However, who is the provider here? Do you get the emails from gentlemen like I have when yes, they want desperately to discuss their bucket list of codes of what will happen weeks before any meeting...again NO NO NO LMAO.  
   
 And YES it happens. You have no idea lol. Am I overreacting, absolutely not at all. I am giggling as I am writing this.  
   
 Oh London...I'm sure she will agree with me on this point. I think if we told you some of the things we have seen, heard, been told, you would be 'mouth open'...then you can DATY