The provider should have her own condoms, but bring some just in case. You never know if she ran out of them or not, so bring some for your own protection. I don't usually bring lube because its just too much to conceal, the provider should hopefully have some. GFE usually means BBBJ (uncovered blowjobs), DFK (deep french kiss), and DATY (Dining at the Y--eating her pussy). If you want everything to be safe, then wear a hat for a BJ. Tell the provider that you want to roleplay, then let her know your words of love--its just something you want to make yourself feel comfortable. Tell her that when you meet with her, otherwise, she might think its weird. Two hours is more than enough time, if you can manage 3 pops in that time, you can. Yes, she will let you have as many pops as you want if your gonna stay 2 hours. You should probably ask her though before the session starts, to make sure there's no passive assumptions. Anyways, get the VIP, you will know much more info on your provider, like BBBJ, how man pops she can have, and everything in between--its worth it.
Posted By: armatoki
I've setup for a provider tonight who specialises in the GFE. She is very well reviewed on TER, but all I've gathered is she enjoys sex, cuddling, and will give blowjobs.
But when I contacted her, she was great to speak to, but it's my first time and I'm still lost. I don't want to bug her yet, so I want to ask here first.
For a GFE provider, is it expected I bring condoms? Does she bring condoms? What about lubricants?
Assuming she agrees to give me a blowjob, is it covered? I can ask, but I just want to know what is usually expected; and I assume she wants to remain safe as possible, I do aswell. Infact she reassured me, she was a safe haven for the first time.
Are GFE providers put off by words like love? I want our session to be romantic, I want to speak words and maybe say I love her, even knowing this is all a fantasy and when I leave, I will remember it was roleplay and nothing else. I want to have an intimate romantic encounter; something to remember with my first provider.
Also, I asked for a two hour session; but I didn't explain why. Part of it is foreplay, but I think I will pop (and hopefully orgasm) twice. Is everything over the first? Is that when the session cuts?
I don't want to disclose the providers name, because I think these should be up to her discretion to agree with what she's comfortable with.