Newbie - FAQ

First time, not sure what to expect, want it to be pleasurable.
armatoki 2551 reads
posted
1 / 10

I've setup for a provider tonight who specialises in the GFE. She is very well reviewed on TER, but all I've gathered is she enjoys sex, cuddling, and will give blowjobs.

But when I contacted her, she was great to speak to, but it's my first time and I'm still lost. I don't want to bug her yet, so I want to ask here first.

For a GFE provider, is it expected I bring condoms? Does she bring condoms? What about lubricants?

Assuming she agrees to give me a blowjob, is it covered? I can ask, but I just want to know what is usually expected; and I assume she wants to remain safe as possible, I do aswell. Infact she reassured me, she was a safe haven for the first time.

Are GFE providers put off by words like love? I want our session to be romantic, I want to speak words and maybe say I love her, even knowing this is all a fantasy and when I leave, I will remember it was roleplay and nothing else. I want to have an intimate romantic encounter; something to remember with my first provider.

Also, I asked for a two hour session; but I didn't explain why. Part of it is foreplay, but I think I will pop (and hopefully orgasm) twice. Is everything over the first? Is that when the session cuts?

I don't want to disclose the providers name, because I think these should be up to her discretion to agree with what she's comfortable with.

curt23 13 Reviews 1272 reads
posted
2 / 10

A lot of your answers are already there. In short your answers are:
The provider usually brings her own condoms but being prepared with your own sealed package is always good.
On the blowjob some ladies are covered only some provide bareback blowjobs but will usually honor a request for covered if you want it. This should be clear from her reviews if you read the details.
Yes some providers if they think you are really falling in love with them would be put off. If you explain your fantasy to pretend to be in love after you arrive then you should be ok.
On MSOG for most true GFE providers a two hour session should have no problem with MSOG but again that information should be evident from her reviews if you read her reviews. In any case you should get your full time regardless of when you pop. Again this should be apparent from the details when you read them.

Posted By: armatoki
I've setup for a provider tonight who specialises in the GFE. She is very well reviewed on TER, but all I've gathered is she enjoys sex, cuddling, and will give blowjobs.

But when I contacted her, she was great to speak to, but it's my first time and I'm still lost. I don't want to bug her yet, so I want to ask here first.

For a GFE provider, is it expected I bring condoms? Does she bring condoms? What about lubricants?

Assuming she agrees to give me a blowjob, is it covered? I can ask, but I just want to know what is usually expected; and I assume she wants to remain safe as possible, I do aswell. Infact she reassured me, she was a safe haven for the first time.

Are GFE providers put off by words like love? I want our session to be romantic, I want to speak words and maybe say I love her, even knowing this is all a fantasy and when I leave, I will remember it was roleplay and nothing else. I want to have an intimate romantic encounter; something to remember with my first provider.

Also, I asked for a two hour session; but I didn't explain why. Part of it is foreplay, but I think I will pop (and hopefully orgasm) twice. Is everything over the first? Is that when the session cuts?

I don't want to disclose the providers name, because I think these should be up to her discretion to agree with what she's comfortable with.

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 967 reads
posted
3 / 10

You should have most of your answers if you read the juicy details. The "L" is usually off limits.

armatoki 786 reads
posted
4 / 10

Posted By: hiddenhills
You should have most of your answers if you read the juicy details. The "L" is usually off limits.
To the people above, thanks for answering the obvious. I'm not VIP, and this is my first time. The girl I'm interested in doesn't have a website and is only reachable by email, and I don't want to be persistently nagging her. I kind of want to let things go naturally, but at the same time understand what is expected from me.

Thank you everyone for your time.

Pinchi 11 Reviews 749 reads
posted
5 / 10

If there is still time, get your VIP now. You'll be able to see exactly what she offers, and read descriptive reviews of how her past sessions went down, and what her attitude is during the session. Every provider offers different services, so without knowing who you're talking about, those specific questions can't be answered, and if they could, I doubt a VIP would let you in on the details he had to pay or contribute to find out...

TylerDurden537 3 Reviews 655 reads
posted
6 / 10

You need to get VIP. Its 30 dollars I believe for a single month, after that you can just keep dealing out reviews to remain active.

Anyways, I am saying get VIP (And I was a newbie once, we all were) is because you want to make sure what you expect is what you are getting. Some providers do say GFE but it may not be what you expect. Its better to spend 30 dollars and read reviews and know EXACTLY what you are getting (Or somewhat close, there have been times when I read all the people getting CBJ and I get a BBBJ) then to waste 600-700 dollars (I assume for a top rated provider that isn't a Pornstar would be a two hour price) and be disappointed.

McDonald000 90 Reviews 663 reads
posted
7 / 10

The provider should have her own condoms, but bring some just in case. You never know if she ran out of them or not, so bring some for your own protection. I don't usually bring lube because its just too much to conceal, the provider should hopefully have some. GFE usually means BBBJ (uncovered blowjobs), DFK (deep french kiss), and DATY (Dining at the Y--eating her pussy). If you want everything to be safe, then wear a hat for a BJ. Tell the provider that you want to roleplay, then let her know your words of love--its just something you want to make yourself feel comfortable. Tell her that when you meet with her, otherwise, she might think its weird. Two hours is more than enough time, if you can manage 3 pops in that time, you can. Yes, she will let you have as many pops as you want if your gonna stay 2 hours. You should probably ask her though before the session starts, to make sure there's no passive assumptions. Anyways, get the VIP, you will know much more info on your provider, like BBBJ, how man pops she can have, and everything in between--its worth it.

Posted By: armatoki
I've setup for a provider tonight who specialises in the GFE. She is very well reviewed on TER, but all I've gathered is she enjoys sex, cuddling, and will give blowjobs.

But when I contacted her, she was great to speak to, but it's my first time and I'm still lost. I don't want to bug her yet, so I want to ask here first.

For a GFE provider, is it expected I bring condoms? Does she bring condoms? What about lubricants?

Assuming she agrees to give me a blowjob, is it covered? I can ask, but I just want to know what is usually expected; and I assume she wants to remain safe as possible, I do aswell. Infact she reassured me, she was a safe haven for the first time.

Are GFE providers put off by words like love? I want our session to be romantic, I want to speak words and maybe say I love her, even knowing this is all a fantasy and when I leave, I will remember it was roleplay and nothing else. I want to have an intimate romantic encounter; something to remember with my first provider.

Also, I asked for a two hour session; but I didn't explain why. Part of it is foreplay, but I think I will pop (and hopefully orgasm) twice. Is everything over the first? Is that when the session cuts?

I don't want to disclose the providers name, because I think these should be up to her discretion to agree with what she's comfortable with.

rightonppl 29 Reviews 736 reads
posted
8 / 10

Without VIP, you can't tell if a provider is well reviewed. You need to be able to read full reviews, not just the intros, and to verify her reviewers by seeing what other reviews they have posted.

Another thing you should know about reviews. Providers like the fact that they answer a lot of questions a customer might have about their services. Questions that providers don't want to have to answer themselves. Their patience can be limited with customers who haven't done their homework.

As for talk of love, there's no harm if it comes naturally within a context of playful fantasy. But it should be mutual and not forced. For you to just blurt it out from out of nowhere could be kind of disturbing for her and spoil the mood.

OneGent1 3 Reviews 1533 reads
posted
9 / 10

It seems you want assurances. Those assurances could have easily been provided had you gotten VIP. I agree with everyone that you should get it because that will answer the majority of your questions. Without VIP, you're really flying blind.

Most of the questions you're asking are things providers assume you would already know and that you shouldn't ask of the lady. Sexual activity isn't discussed until you're in the room face to face (unless you've already seen her). At least your instinct about 'bugging her' seems to be on track, but with the level of hesitation I see in your post I'd say she's probably gong above and beyond already. Many providers would cut off all contact with you the second you bring up sex in an email before the meet.

As far as your two hours. I don't understand why you feel that should be explained to her? If she's a GFE provider then you should be able to use the full two hours how you see fit. The reason for extended time? Because you can afford it and want to prolong the fun.

Regarding your fantasy romance thing, the way you're describing it is a little out of the ordinary. Other have said this, and you really will have to explain this to her (once you're in the room with her) and set up the roleplay scenario in the beginning. Otherwise, things could get weird.

For everything else, have you read the newbie FAQs? Also, read a few pages into the newbie board. Most things and what's 'typical' and 'expected' will be explained between the two.

Allstar 9 Reviews 701 reads
posted
10 / 10

I always bring my own condoms to a date. I like a specific brand because they fit me and feel the best. I'm 6'1" and 210 pounds. The off the shelf condoms the providers often have are way to tight. I started bringing my own lube because some women don't get wet or the condom drys them out after a while. Young women often are cocky and think "I dont need lube" and never have it when its necessary. I bring my own just in case. Many providers I have visited had their own.

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