With some budget and time restrictions, I do not get to hobby as often as most of the posters on here, so I wonder which would be a better approach for someone like me - find a single lady, with whom I have some chemistry and have multiple encounters with her, or just continue to see new ladies all the time?  I can understand the appeal to always seeing new ladies (variety), but wonder if seeing someone multiple times be more enjoyable with each visit, and as I cannot afford to do both, I am debating which way I should go.

Any advice?

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Seeing a lady repeatedly can have wonderful benefits if you click with her. Seeing only one lady has its own special perils, though. I recommend splitting your time either between two favorites or between a favorite and an occasional new face.

For me anyway. I'm a pretty easy dog to keep under the porch actually.

My lady friend knocks my socks off.

I spend a lot of time with her.

We're buds+

I like this approach.

I have five ladies I see repeatedly, about once every three months each, though some are a little more often, others a little less often. It is not close to a firm schedule, but I do hope to avoid seeing any one more than once a month. And I alternate them with new ladies.

At least, that is the plan. The reality is that I see who I feel like seeing and that varies, but I do try to cycle through my regulars and add interesting new ones as I notice them. Given that I really like seeing all my regulars, I am pretty easy if one of them reaches out to me directly, or places an ad, particularly with a special. In fact, my ATF knows that she can just call me and I will bust my butt to get over there, but part of what I like about her is that she refuses to do that.

So don't worry about it, go back to see the ones you want to see again, and visit new ones when you feel like it. Your two heads will tell you what to do.

Zig

♥ Ava

My advice is that you need to get a good following of about five ladies that you click with and rotate them.  Once you are seeing one lady too often feelings will certainly get involved and things will not feel as fun anymore.     You want to keep things fun and light.    Seeing one lady all the time is like a marriage!!