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Gents should ask you first
la_princesa See my TER Reviews 439 reads
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I think it's always best if the gentleman asks you first.
I wouldn't ask for a review immediately afterwards. Wait a bit, and maybe email him asking if he would mind reviewing you. Just explain that you need a few reviews to help you get started and established as a provider.

You could always do what I did- offer some type of incentive for reviews.

-Hope this helps.

Do i need to ask the gents to review me or do the gents just do it on their own without the lady asking for it??..I mean, i felt like it is not appropriate for me to request to be reviewed after a gent had a nice relaxing time with me as it felt like i am giving a gent a task...LOL..i'm confused...kindly fill me up...Thank You!...

you can ask..usually i always write a review unless she asks me not to..some do not write reviews because they have trouble expressing themselves..in your case i dont think that would be a problem..i would love to fill you up..if you are new to providing..always ask..your reviews are important and have to come from somewhere..

I think it's always best if the gentleman asks you first.
I wouldn't ask for a review immediately afterwards. Wait a bit, and maybe email him asking if he would mind reviewing you. Just explain that you need a few reviews to help you get started and established as a provider.

You could always do what I did- offer some type of incentive for reviews.

-Hope this helps.

If you are new, you need reviews.  You can nicely ask gents if the write reviews after the action & if they state they will, ask them to do so.  Don't offer rewards for high review marks.  If there's a question just ask if they had a good time to say so.  While you might actually appreciate a good review to promise rewards is akin to bribary.  Lots of guys say they will write reviews but in fact most do not, for one reason or other and new reviewers often find reviews of new providers held up.  (First reviews are hard to verify.)  It still doesn't mean you shouldn't ask.  Out of 10 who agree, you might get 1 or 2 initially.

If you know that your client is a frequent TER reviewer, then there is no risk in asking.

If you don't beat your own drum, no one else will.

Before you ask a guy to write a review, you should first ask if he is a member of TER or any other review site.  If he says no or says he's never heard of any of the sites you mention to him -  if he seems interested in learning about them you can explain what the site is and tell him if he wants to try the site out if he writes a review he will get two weeks of VIP membership so he can read all the reviews.

If the guy has never heard of TER or any review sites and isn't interested, then there's no point in asking him to write a review.

Then you can ask.  But, do not advertise on this site that you will  give discounts or free sessions for a review or for high numbers.  This will get you booted off the site.

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Big-Bad-John1244 reads

However, an email after the session with a little thank you note will do the trick sometimes.

I do take exception to being badgered or quiried about scores. I had a provider once ask for nothing less then a 9/9 so she got nothing.

I can tell you that I personally do not like to discuss reviews prior to a session, but others don't seem to mind as much.

Just do your best and the reviews will come.

I feel like it is something nice I can do for the provider if she was great, and something I owe to others if the experience was not what it should have been.  Since I haven't been doing this that long I found other's reviews extremely helpful in feeling secure in the choices I made and ensuring a good match between myself and the providers.  

You should mever hesitate to ask either.  Hey, this is marketing!

the guy if he would be willing to write a review. Some guys will ask you if it is OK to write a review because there are some ladies who prefer to stay UTR.

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