I am not a newbie but this might be a good place to get advice on something.

Recently I have contacted two different providers who will be visiting my area soon with interest in setting up a date when they are in town. One of the two ladies I contacted just yesterday so I am sure she may still respond back. But the other girl I haven't heard back from since I sent a email to her with my info this past Wednesday.

Here is what I am a bit worried about. I live in an area where LE is active at times. One side of the river is relatively free of any LE activity while the other side can be a problem.

A provider who is traveling to the area may not be aware of this potential hazard. So I mentioned this, as a courteous word of warning, in both emails. Just a simple couple of sentences that explain the matter, that it is safe on one side and not as safe on the other.

Is this something that you think is ok to do, or might even bringing up LE make a provider antsy that I might be LE?? I am just trying to help as I don't want anyone to get into difficulty if I can help. But then again I also don't want to blow my chance to see a provider I am interested in seeing.

Any thoughts, especially from providers, would be appreciated.

from the bad one.

Certain parts of town I will not go, mostly for travel (traffic) reasons, but LE is a better reason.  Do not recommend specific hotels, but you can mention preferred neighborhoods, or exits off the highway.  Something to point the gal (or guy as the case may be) to an area you feel comfortable conducting your personal affairs

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Yes, if I was a provider and I had a trip planned to an area where John Law is active, I would definitely want to know. If you don't tell her, and she gets busted, how would you feel then? Just my thoughts on it.

from gents, and prefer to take counsel with other providers.

I've offered advice like that, along with good places to stay, etc. when I knew a lady was planning to visit my area for the first time, and I had scheduled a date with her.

It's rarely been commented on and seldom followed lol

So I figure that if she wants the "scoop" shell contact other providers whom she knows have toured the area.

It could be causing a problem for you.  The more cautious provider could be spinning on the info, assuming that if you know something, there must be a connection between you & LE.

I'd suggest that you go through her screening first, and AFTER getting the green light, ask what part of town she's planning on staying in.  If it's the "bad place", warn her about LE.  Otherwise, it didn't need to be said, and the problem isn't one.

About certain cities that are "hot" areas.   Most of the time the response is a simple "thank you", and nothing more.

If the information is something that they have seen before, it usually is understood that I am helping the person.

Of course having a posting history helps also.

For example, in LA, you could both be in the same "city" but at same time an hour or more travel time each way.

Nobody wants to spend time with screening to find this out after.

I'm a new provider working in the US. I'm on holiday from Singapore so I don't know much about how things run here. Since I've not met you before, if you told me something like that, I'll freak out. I'll definitely think that maybe you're LE and using reverse psychology on me. But if I've met you and we've built up that trust, then that's ok. Might be too late for your advice by then but at least next time I come to your city, I'll know better. That's my 2 cents anyways..