Apparently I need to clarify my posts, since it’s been brought to my attention that someone thinks I keep some sort of Heidi Fleiss Black Book full of client information. I am duly concerned about this rumor spreading and possibly gaining unwarranted credence as fact. I’m not sure how this notion was construed out of my previous posts, but I want to iterate once and for all to anyone who may have misunderstood: I do not do this, and never would. (In fact, I don’t understand why anyone would do this.) Any personal information I receive as part of screening is not catalogued in any form, ever. If it is given via email, that email is deleted promptly and permanently once the information has been verified. I do not think I ask unreasonable screening questions, and I make every effort to assure my clients that they are doing business with someone discreet and responsible.

That said-there will always be hobbyists with a serious (and reasonable) concern over the risk of their private information being released- and that’s fine. But if this is taken to an extreme and a new client refuses to answer basic and reasonable screening questions, I’m not going to go out of my way to complete the screening. I (as with most providers) have a staggering number of leads to follow through with each day, and I have practically no incentive to waste my time going out on a limb- possibly compromising my safety- catering to the exceptional paranoia of someone who wants to see me. There is no shortage of other potential clients who don’t present this kind of headache. Those are my standards. If they aren’t okay with you, that’s alright- I wish you the best and hope you have a good experience elsewhere.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and understand my concern. Drop me a line if this is still in any way unclear.

Thanks

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Never used 'em, but they seem to have a pretty good reputation with folks on TER.

Cheers!

I agree.

My original response wasn't actually in reference to girls who ask for this kind of information via a generic form on a website. Personally, I don't know that I'd want to do that either. :/ It could certainly feel like a lot of information to give up to someone who hasn't even yet expressed any interest in seeing you! To each their own, though. I'm sure it helps a lot of girls weed out potential time-wasters and assholes.

As for me- I only ask for this sort of information after I've gotten a polite request for an appointment, and have confirmed that they're serious about meeting.

References are also really good. I wish there were an reliable client review database, or at least that more girls would be willing to serve as references for future providers. That would definitely make the screening process less painful.

In the meantime, try not to be offended at the personal questions you get asked. I mean, we're just girls. The worst that's likely to happen to you is that you get ripped off or  possibly busted. The worst that could happen to us is being raped and murdered by someone we didn't screen thoroughly. Try and keep it in perspective.