What is protocol for asking provider for whitelisting? multiple visits? other

I've never asked to be on it, but numerous providers decided on their own to put me on it even after only one session.

I would just ask.  There worst that can happen is that she'll demure

...or send a follow up email.  You can say something to the effect... "Thank you for an amazing time. Would you consider whitelisting me on TER?" You'll have to give her your TER handle, if you haven't already done so.  

Just realize that she may be hesitant until she sees the review if you write one. Some gals don't believe in them and they'll tell you, so don't take it personally. Each gal is different. I think as long as you were clean, respectful, and on time with the proper donation, most will be glad to help you out.

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You can simply ask at the end of the session if she would be amenable to white listing you.  You don't have to promise that you'll write a review.  I've never had a lady say that she wouldn't white list me...though some women just don't get around to doing so. There are no rules as to the number of visits you have to have with a lady in order for her to whitelist you....many of my whitelists are after first time appointments.  

I usually (not always) write reviews for my sessions. If I haven't received a whitelist by the time her review is posted, I will send an E-mail or PM (depending on how we communicated) telling her that her review is posted and if she has time a whitelist referral is always appreciated as it helps in the screening process. That's it. If she doesn't whitelist at that point, it's fine. No issues.  

   

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one lady who said, "not until we have seen each other again". Done that.

Another has said, "only if you write me a good review". Not sure if I am going to write the review.

... is violating TER's review policy.  (See #13)

Could you please expand on this thought? I don't want to make assumptions, but my mind is sort of trying to jump into a few right now. What are you saying? If a guy is safe, non-violent, non-LE, clean, pays full price and leaves on time; but you two didn't have good chemistry or he didn't make you cum hard enough you won't whitelist him? It's not supposed to be a ratings system for johns, as much as that would seem to be perfectly fair, in all honesty. What are you saying and not saying? Am I reading your post wrong?

After all it's the newbie board and we have to be nice.