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From the time I started 35 years ago to now, I've enjoyed gals of all ages....
mrfisher 112 Reviews 3064 reads
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and continue to do so.

All have many things to offer, including the experience of age and the delight of a body that knows what it is doing; as well as the freshness of youth.

Don't set limits, breech them instead.  It's a lot more fun.

Having recently happily entered into the hobby, I have a question for providers.  What age difference between a client and the provider is reasonable and acceptable?  For myself, I set a limit of one-half my age or older, but I would love to hear from the ladies on this one, because I find it very difficult to believe that a 20 year old would want to have a relation with a 60 year old.  Thanks ahead of time!

Many ladies enjoy the company of mature gentleman.I am in my 20's and I see gentleman in the 60 age range all the time does not bother me in the whatsoever.I find with gentleman that are much older are more in tune to a woman's desires and body.With age comes wisdom and some of the best conversations I have had are with older gents.Do not worry about if a lady has an issue with age if you are older it is usually the younger guys that are questioning why they have problems seeing ladies because they prefer older gents.Some guys prefer younger ladies some prefer older ladies.There also the ones that enjoy a mixture of the two don't stress the age issue.
Just have a mind-blowing time after all that is what you are there for!

Thanks Jaydalee and an absolutely stunning (artistically) set of photos on your website.  The color of the rocks are perfectly suited for your skin tone, my kudos!

for your kind words.I know you said you prefer the company of more mature ladies but don't count out some of us ladies in the 20s range will have you pleasantly surprised regarding their maturity.
Good luck and have fun!

Posted By: azcowboy49
Thanks Jaydalee and an absolutely stunning (artistically) set of photos on your website.  The color of the rocks are perfectly suited for your skin tone, my kudos!

Well, if I get up to LV, I know exactly whom to get in touch with!

As long as she is of legal age, the only thing that matters is what is acceptable to YOU. None of us is going to be in the bedroom frowning at you for picking a lovely young lady who is less than half your age.

One of the reasons this hobby offers such a wide variety of women of every shape, size, age, and ethnic background is because it really does take all kinds. Every man has his particular preferences of what turns him on, and there is usually a lady or two (or more) out there who fits what he is looking for.

If it is concerns about whether she will be attracted to you that stop you from seeing younger women, then relax. Do your research and select well reviewed ladies and you can be confident that you will enjoy yourself. Remember, reviewers don't give their age when they write a review. Chances are some of the reviews you read are being written by men your age and older. If they had a great time, then clearly age wasn't a factor.

So don't worry about age. Dive in and enjoy, if she's professional, she'll make you feel like you are 18 again.

I was horrible at 18!  Can run a much longer race now, making the pleasure much more exquisite!

Which is precisely why even as a teenage I was more interested in older men than men my own age! When I was 22 I was in a long term relationship with a man who was 45. Ah, the memories! Today, I'm 37 and my sweetie is 54 and I think he's the sexiest man God ever put on this earth :)

First, thanks for the insightful comment ladies.  In order to clarify, my personal preferences are for more mature women who have developed through experience certain skills that come only with time.  Having said that, I am a refuge from the insanity of the adult fun-oriented on-line dating world and finally began to explore the benefits of dealing with providers who know what they are doing, are honest about why they are doing it, and are very good at what they do.  Such is not the case in the civvie world where there is way too much drama/baggage AND sometimes the "experience" can be rather pathetic.  Ironically, one of the best "non-provider" encounters I have ever had was with a woman who turned out to be a courtesan in San Fran, although we met in a non-professional manner.  Again, thanks for you comments and insights.

and continue to do so.

All have many things to offer, including the experience of age and the delight of a body that knows what it is doing; as well as the freshness of youth.

Don't set limits, breech them instead.  It's a lot more fun.

I'm like mrfisher, I love women of all ages...............  I've been with ladies as young as early 20"s to late 50"s.  It's all good.

Posted By: mrfisher
and continue to do so.

All have many things to offer, including the experience of age and the delight of a body that knows what it is doing; as well as the freshness of youth.

Don't set limits, breech them instead.  It's a lot more fun.

I have no problems with any age.  If I am attracted to her, I will try to see her, could care less how old she is.......it's the attraction that does it for me.

If a lady has a problem with my age, I'm now 64, oh well, I guess I won't see her.  Read the girls' comments. Most of them don't care how old we are as long as the envelope is there....duhhhhhhh

Swim

I understand where your hesitation in wondering how a 20 year old would have any interest in a 60 year old man.  But here...in this game...that does not apply.  In this "fantasy world" almost anything and everything you didn't think existed, well it does.  Get out there and start exploring this incredible "hobby" and just enjoy it for what it is.  If you're thinking that you will need a mental connection with your lady of choice, well that is usually not a problem once the door closes, she moves towards you, and you have fun.

Remember, as others have said, see gals that are well reviewed ONLY.  If you don't have VIP..get it and read the reviews.  The first time is a tough one...but then there is only one first time.  Do your homework, make the call, and go and begin your journey...and write the review (we'll be waiting for your report)   :)

consistently entertained two different niches: those under 30 and those over 50.

The men over fifty never felt threatened and we had a lot in common. These are the men I get along the best with; my ATF just hit 50 this year.

The under thirty guys wanted a GFE, not a GF; they didn't want the headaches and heartaches of a girlfriend nor did they want anyone in baby-making range. At worst, they just wanted a hole; at best, they wanted to relax with a MILF.

For the most part, the fellows in the middle didn't want anything to do with me (I was too old, too ugly, too fat, you name it I heard it). I met with a few who treated me well, but mostly those between 30 and 50 didn't want me. **shrugs**

Hope this helps you understand that providers see things differently than clients do. You're not comfortable beyond your personal limits. That's perfectly okay. I was comfortable with anyone.

Difference and what is acceptable depends on the provider. I've seen some ladies who DON'T want to see a soul under 45 no matter how mature he is or thinks he is, some don't want anyone under 35, no one under 30 etc. I am very early 20's but do not see anyone under 27 and compared to what age minimum most ladies require that i've seen I think i might be lenient lol. And at least half of the people I see are 50 and up and we can talk about anything and have lots of fun and i don't just mean sexual since age doesn't always equal intelligence it's not always hard to sit by someone older or younger and not have a lot to talk about. In my hotel lobby 2 days ago (there was some mason thing going when I arrived) I was surrounded by folks well over 60 for about 2hrs and we talked and had a pretty good time. Sometimes we should just see people as people instead of being too restrictive about age.  See someone just under 30 like say 25 and see how you like it.

Posted By: azcowboy49
Having recently happily entered into the hobby, I have a question for providers.  What age difference between a client and the provider is reasonable and acceptable?  For myself, I set a limit of one-half my age or older, but I would love to hear from the ladies on this one, because I find it very difficult to believe that a 20 year old would want to have a relation with a 60 year old.  Thanks ahead of time!

When I was in DC very recently I came very close to contacting you; you are a very lovely and stimulating woman.  Unfortunately I ran out of time, perhaps when I go back again.

Why thank you and hey i'm based there so there's always another time :)

Is that not the whole point to this hobby azcowboy!!!! is that you have the freedom to have anything you desire or fantasize about.... I see gents of all ages and it's not generally their age that worries me more their attitude. If somebody is respectful and nice then i will see them again regardless of age however if they are rude in anyway then i won't see them again. I think you can find different rough diamonds of all ages and i have some fantastic gents of all ages here in the UK that im going to miss when i move but i'll have to make a point of coming back to visit every now and then.... but indulge in whatever it is your looking for and it's not for anybody to judge you. Everybody does this for a different rreason and your quite entitled to  your so why are you questioning it!!!!! Just go and have fun with whoever you please.

Hugs Casey :-) xx

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we all know age is just a number and yes 20 yr old providers are probably great in bed with a gentleman like yourself..    i am in my late 490's and see guys as young as 30 ..  but  i also see guys as old as 65 ..
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