Good evening,

I want to say to the gentlemen that use the escort service and to the providers that I am totally new to the business and that I will have my first scheduled date next week, and I find myself very nervous because I wanted it to be good experience and I don't want to disappoint my client, and I would like some advise from both hobbist and providers with experience.

Hi Sasha,
I'm Kevin and first off let me start by saying I hope your having a great day. Like me personally I'm a very affection person and i luv kissing holding hands and cuddlin, all that affectionate stuff (and sex also of course ) and in the past my experiences i would have liked more affection or if not more than at least try to make it seem like our time together is somewhat meaningful to u and like u give a care about yur client , instead of just blah plain business. Thats why i personally enjoy the girlfriend experience (and more) alot. Im not sure what your into doin but in a discrete way figure out what yur client is lookin for and all and whatever u do make yur client feel like they are the only important thing, for that period of time together. i also enjoy, one of my top priorities, pleasuring the woman as well and i luv "french" and give that to who im with also. and greek if shes into it  then im very fine with it aswell. i hope i helped  you out somehow adorablesasha. *hugs n kisses* Kevin

Be very safe...after you feel comfortable, let yourself go,
and have a good time.  If you are a caring individual, and a giver, you will be fine.

I am sure the person you are meeting is a little nervous too.

important when you are sucking his cock). Eye contact is important!!  Your scores will be much higher and you will have happier clients if you do UNCOVERED BJs and you Deep French Kiss (DFK). If you swallow, your scores will continue to climb, and if you allow the guy to eat your kitty and you do Greek, and you perform Asian you will become many guy's All Time Favorite's. Other tips include, offer the guy a drink and Don't count the $$$ in front of the guy. Make sure your kitty is squeeky clean. Keep small talk in the beginning to a minimum. Guys are paying for SEX, not chit chat. Most guys want to get down to business ASAP. Best tip of all is BE YOURSELF!!!  You can't be somebody you're not. Lastly, DON'T be a clockwatcher!!  It sounds like you're going to be an indy, so give the guy an extra couple of minutes for a 2nd or 3rd pop.  Good luck!!!  Now, if you take all of my advice and perform all the aforementioned acts, and you are attractive, I'll sign up to take you out for a "road test" and give you my GOO!!!!!

Thats not true at all.

Conversation always help to makes you and the guy relax also offer him a back rub.

Good Luck, Carla Brazil

While GF got a little bold with you, if you follow his basics you will not disappoint your clients.  A big turnoff is to count the $$$ in front of the client.  Especially like in my last date where we started getting hot and disrobbing, etc. when she says, "is that for me" as she points to the envelope.  She stops the action, opens the envelope, and counts the $$$.  Down went you know who.
Yes, most guys prefer BBBJ but eye contact during the entire date is a plus.  Kiss with your eyes open, murmur sweet words in his ear, nibble & kiss various parts of his body, etc.  If you are doing incall, provide candles, soft music, a beverage (non-alcoholic is fine), and as said earlier, not too much small talk before...  

First order of business is of course to be sure of your pre-screening for you will feel more relaxed thus that will transfer to your client. I would recomend that you request he leave donation in envelope in bathroom while he washes hands at begining of session that way you can descreatly check it for as pointed out by an other poster seeing you check it can be a turn off. Have available something to drink be it just bottled water so if he wishes something to sip on while you chat and get aquainted might be nice. Most of the gentlemen I see like to sit down and chat for few minutes before getting comfortable. If you have any other questions feel free to ask me. Most of us ladies are always willing to help a new comer party safe and have fun
Georgia

go to a provider for a back rub. We can get this elsewhere for one fifth the rate of a provider. We come for sex.

Most important, is be yourself. Do what comes natural and what you feel comfortable with. I suggest you ignore Gooey Facial's advice (what do you expect with an alias like that).
I pity the provider that has to put up with him. If you do come across that type,refund his money and politely ask him to leave.

What do I like ? The true GFE not an AE ( acronym experience) This means real warmth , passion and affection.  That's not easily done in one 1 hr visit but it is possible if you click with someone. What do hate ? Being left cold. This means handing me a tissue at the end and then the provider starts to get dressed. A nice warm towel with a tender touch, followed by cuddling and pillow talk is the sign of a first class lady.

I wouldn't hesitate to tell him it's your first time either. A real gentleman will know how to take care of you All the best.

Yes above all be yourself and I would also mention you are very new to the business and I would not necessarily mention that he is your first client. If he finds you attractive and likes your personality thats a plus. If you find him attractive thats even a bigger plus brcause you two will probably click. Don't be a clock watcher and dooo be clean! Eventualy the ones that click with you will be back and the ones that don't won't. Everybody is different beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Most of us here have a list of providers that we repeat with and others we would rather forget about.

Sasha,
You do seem adorable. I think you know what men like. You have placed yourself in a path that requires trust and insight. Everything you learn outside the bedroom is what counts. In the Bedroom, men, real men express themselves, let them. Return in kind what you like to express.Mirror.
Passion is what fuels all of us. Screen & Pass if you don't feel it. Don't be hassled and demand respect.

Chairoscuro

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You better tell that to providers you pretend to see before hand so they can decide if they want to see you or not. I personally wouldn't see a guy with that attitude.

Hi Sasha,
Let me start off by saying welcome to the business and good luck. I am new to posting on TER but by far, not new to the business. I'm sure you'll do just fine, considering you made the effort to get some feedback and the fact that you "...don't want to disappoint my client..." already shows you have the right attitude to start off in the right direction. As for any advice: don't generalize your clients. Every guy likes and expects different things. There are those looking more for a GFE complete with conversations, cuddling, etc. and those looking for the most bang for their buck. If your client doesn't tell/show you what they like, you have to find out what that may be. It is okay to ask questions, especially in the beginning. If in doubt, just stick to the basics. Most of us guys like at least the basics.

Oh and by the way, do you have a name / agency and website you will be working as. We will be looking forward to seeing your success.

Thank you all for your great advise. It made good sense and yes that includes the one individual that was a bit colorful with his wording. He actually had some valid advise. I will certainly use them. As for femaleartist, thanks. From time to time I will like to hit you with some questions.

I will have my first date this week. I am ready, available, and nervous. I have a lot of questions. But I will only ask two. What can you advise me on how to break the ice and get into a passionate mood? I'm a classy lady, elegant, and attractive, but in reality, how would the gentlemen like to see me dressed as they open the door? Ah, one more thing; my English is my second language, and I speak with some difficulty. Do you think that will make the clients uncomfortable?



Thank You

If you're a classy lady then dress as such. A nice suit or skirt nothing too short or tacky. Stockings and heels (not the clunky kind of heels) are a must. Any man who doesn't get turned on by that look is dead in my opinion! To me the language barrier is a turn on. I love those accents

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