what should a newbe do when it is there first time ?

you can research this on TER by going to profiles of the clients and reading their initial reviews.  That would provide good insite into what other clients have done.  As for the ladies, I believe they are more concerned with what THEY should do to make your stay comfortable.
sgandolfs

you too, buddy!
"provide insite"... (meaning in a specifically defined location) when you mean insight (meaning getting an inside look).
Spell-checkers are no substitute for knowing one's primary tool of communication (language).
And let us not get to grammar and syntax because the American education systems (the plural is deliberate) don't teach those any more. -

It is obvious when we speak on the phone….. Kisses ~Tori

I would suggest that you spend a bit of time and research some of the providers in your area.

When you have found an individual that attracts your attention, take some time and check out  her reviews. If she is still an attractive possibility (*based on what her reviews suggest might happen in a meeting with her*) …-then-….

Watch the discussion board for the Region she is located. Notice her tone, demeanor and thoughts that are expressed in her contribution to the discussion….or…

Check the reviewers who have posted a review of her. PM (*private message through TER mail system*) a couple reviewers and ask if they know of her recent behavior and mannerisms. You can also take that opportunity to see if she might have specific screening practices that might be out of the ordinary. (*you might not get full details, out of a concern for the provider’s well being*) but if she requires anything that you might have to work on… like 5 references from local providers with at least two of them having blond hair, at least one having green eyes and at least 4 being over 5’5” *LOL* (*ok, I was just checking to see if you were still paying attention*) LOL

Anyway, if there is anything that you might be challenged with in regards to screening then you will know. (*Hobbyists usually mention if a provider prefers email, phone calls, etc… so that will help you to*)

Then…. If you are truly a newbie, an experienced hobbyist might tell you to go ahead and set up the appointment, meet him in the parking area of the providers location and he will execute the session for you, provided you give him the donation for the provider up front. …… (*OK- don’t agree to this…. It is an old trick used by experienced hobbyists to take advantage of newbies LOL*). Just teasing Happy Monday!!!

Happy Hobbying….. Know your provider (*and her reputation*) kisses ~T


(*sorry I had to modify... it is Monday*)

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