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For providers: can you tell if a hobbyist is new

Cathay 2376 reads

posted 15 years ago

Can you tell if a hobbyist is new or a veteran? And do you bring it up if they are new? What signals usually give the info away?

sweetnicole115 years ago1175 reads

yup

no references, end of story.

Won't see someone without verifying them first so of course we know.

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sweetnicole115 years ago1173 reads

Oh if you are thinking about trying to decieve or outright lie

to her with false info you will end up blacklisted.
Just be honest about your lack of refs and being new. Its in your best interest to tell her what the deal is. many women will still see you but she will know.

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Lqqknrnd1315 years ago987 reads

Re: Oh if you are thinking about trying to decieve or outright lie

This is true for me also. Although I am new to this I have had a few encounters and have told the provider this. The downfall is that I am not RS2K verified and sometimes that causes trouble. I just try to find providers who will overlook it. Oh, and it doesn't get me invited to M&G's...bummer!

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shudaknownbetter15 years ago1157 reads

Re: For providers: can you tell if a hobbyist is new

If you are a Newbie best to say so up front. You'll not have provider referances. If a lady chooses to see Newbies, she must get alternate information to verify him...
Newbies MUST be willing to be guided through the process & if they are not, then the lady will pass on them.
Self employed & retired (like me) must give alturnate screening information... to ladies that have alturnate methods.
I never try to BS a provider. The truth will always fit with the information when screening.
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