Ok, so I am new to the sight, and I have been reading and reviewing, and have gotten some fantastic information, but I am still in need of some guidance.

My long term girlfriend and I (we are both 40 years old) are interested in a date for the evening with an attractive female, and hope to explore some of our fantasies together. We think that doing this way is the better way to go (as opposed to someone we know, or trying to find someone to play with us), but neither of has any experience in this hobby.

Has anyone done this before for their girlfriend / wife? Shared an amazing night together with a provider? We have talked about this in a lot of detail, and are interested in finding some who is:

30-45 years old - this is a general range, but we would prefer someone who is much younger than us - I guess we are looking for the "milf" type
a brunette (or at least not a blonde) my girlfriend is a blonde, and blondea are "my type", so this is her rule, not mine
someone who enjoys being with a woman (and a man!), but who can also be patient, as this would be my girlfriends first time...
someone who enjoys kissing a woman(this is what I think is referred to as the girl friend experience - GFE as opposed to the PSE, although we would really enjoy some of that too! I guess we are looking for the naughty GFE )

We are in Northern New Jersey, so we are thinking New York city, but would be willing to travel for this right provider. (This being our first time, I want everything to be as perfect, so I am thinking the right provider is far more important that just about anything else).

Are there providers out there that specialize in couples? Does that even matter? My girlfriend has almost no "rules" for my participation, and I am thrilled to explore this with her!

I appreciate any feedback some of you more experienced folks may have out there, on anything and everything, and I hope this thread sparks some interesting discussion.

Regards,

H