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carlosSW 1804 reads
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Guy has flower(s) for you at an outcall for you how do you. And if your asked what kind of flowers you like (or at least not allergic to) if they are not listed as I see with some providers, do you. And yes I understand  some of you have your own SO and would usually politely decline in that case. Again just curious

P.S. if this the wrong place to pose this "?" feel free to let me know

clarence37538 reads

that English is not your first language, Carlos. I don't know about anybody else around here, but I'm having trouble understanding what the question is. Are you just asking if ladies like to receive flowers from a "client"? If so, you should ask the individual lady.

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mrfisher516 reads

I'd say most gals would decline if they are in a hotel because they would not want to have to pack them up to travel and hate to leave them behind to die.

Also, other guys coming to the outcall would see them and be reminded that you see other guys, which of course we all know is the case, but we hate to be reminded of it so vividly.

Finally, bringing flowers through a hotel lobby is kind of tip off to others of what is going on, and is not being discreet.

If, on the other hand, you are seeing a gal at her permanent incall or home, then it might be a nice thing to do.  

I would always suggest asking first.

I've only met one gal who specifically requested flowers in all the time I've been hobbying.

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harborview442 reads

Certainly conspicious...  at an IN call (which is not what you asked) it's a turn off for any later clients.  Flowers are a romantic gesture...  since this is supposed to be "NSA" (No Strings Attached) I think most would rather not.  
I think a gal would rather have a gift card for VS or similar.

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macdaddy1944413 reads

i usually bring something to eat beside myself..i think the ladies would rather snack on candy than flowers..nothing better than a sweet morsel before the main course..

Posted By: carlosSW
Guy has flower(s) for you at an outcall for you how do you. And if your asked what kind of flowers you like (or at least not allergic to) if they are not listed as I see with some providers, do you. And yes I understand  some of you have your own SO and would usually politely decline in that case. Again just curious

P.S. if this the wrong place to pose this "?" feel free to let me know

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carlosSW409 reads

It was thinking about that it's an two girls in at in outcall the one said she liked gummy bears on her profile on another board, I figured I'd stock some of them since we are going to be at it for a while I know I am bringing water. But I didn't know the protocols about snacks/comestibles  I mean regardless of the circumstances figure might as well be a good host. I really posed the question because both girls have slightly different rates and I wanted a way to differentiate the donations without marking them, since that seems to be the SOP so far in my experience.

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JustGopherIt426 reads

It's best to leave it in its original sealed wrapper.  Just to let them know you have their safety in mind.

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carlosSW457 reads

Of course that seems to be the case with anything since trust is a big issue in this hobby. I was even thinking about bringing wine to share between the three of us but that might be pushing it

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harborview435 reads

open together.   Gals are right to be concerned about having a drink tampered with.  Snacks & refreshments are a great idea.

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carlosSW400 reads

Not sure I get the first line you have there? Did you mean we should open them together if so of course, I would hope they are as cautious as they are discreet

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London Rayne464 reads

Flowers are for maybe your ATF who won't misunderstand the gesture or a girlfriend, not just every escort you see. If you want to do something that she can actually benefit from, give her a gift card, and not for lingerie. Maybe just to Whole Foods or any store that she can actually use the money to feed her family with.

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carlosSW398 reads

It was more of a means of differentiating the donations without 'marking' them but I guess it's inevitable. Yes I understand that it might be misinterpeted as more than it should be

Posted By: London Rayne
Flowers are for maybe your ATF who won't misunderstand the gesture or a girlfriend, not just every escort you see. If you want to do something that she can actually benefit from, give her a gift card, and not for lingerie. Maybe just to Whole Foods or any store that she can actually use the money to feed her family with.

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swimtrekr408 reads

flowers as a gift are generally not considered a good idea, for a variety of reasons, some of which have already been mentioned, so I won't repeat them.  Food or drink items, IMHO, not much better because of the possibility of tampering, sad, but unfortunately true.

Candles are always a good idea, and fairly inexpensive.  Gift cards are good too, just look at websites where the provider has a wishlist.  I use VS, never had a disappointed lady with either of these gifts.

Hope this helps.
Swim

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crazyshit443 reads

But honestly, I think that if you want to give a gift, a gift card from Visa or Amex works best.

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fallonkelly338 reads

I had to tell my gent today not to bring the flowers into the room.  Thank god he asked me before he came in with them.

Not too sexy with wheeping eyes swollen half shut and sneezing uncontrollably.

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spinman91381 reads

that was one of my fears even worse would have been an anaphylaxis which is not sexy at all

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jagelware502 reads

Hey Carlos, I asked the same question some time ago, but I was thinking to bring a single flower -- to be discrete in the hotel lobby -- and only to a girl that I have seen at least twice and that I know she would appreciate it.
American girls are more practical; ca$h is better as in a gift card, and also they are more prone to allergies than say Latinas, that I know would appreciate more the flowers.

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crazyshit413 reads

Getting into the minutia of giving flowers...that's just crazy.

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