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jlart123 36 Reviews 1759 reads
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Has this ever happened to you? I've had on occasion had this happen to me and I wanted to know the board's perspective on how to handle it.  I went to see a lady and had a good time with her.  Her looks and performance were good enough that I may call her again if in a crunch but I prefer to keep it fresh rather than repeat. Was online and found an ad from what I thought was a new provider and when I get to the incall I realize that is a lady I have already seen and she recognizes me as well.  Now I don't want to be rude since I had seen her before and had fun and told her as such but really I want to spend my $ on someone else and not her.  Hobbyists is it rude for me to walk out or cancel the session? Ladies would you be offended if a hobbyist in the position stated above did not stay for the session?

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 997 reads
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your question.You said you saw a lady had a good time and then you see another ad contact the lady and it is the same lady you saw before.I am assuming the ad you thought was a new provider and she was using different pics than her first ad.Is that right?It does sound like a B&S two different numbers and 2 different ads.You are not obligated to see her if this is the scenario with different pics and different number that is misleading.
I would not be offended because I would not be in that situation I would not be using different pics and a different phone number or email to make a gentleman think I am someone else.I use the same stage name and same email.

CaseySterling See my TER Reviews 570 reads
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phone numbers can change and if she doesn't have a website she might have multiple pictures and only post 1-2 at a time on ads to attract customers. HOWEVER, using the same name or stage name and same e-mail(if she uses it) is crucial. Otherwise this will happen if by mistake or on purpose.

I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt but more likely she is trying to pass herself of as two different women....why? Many reasons, but who really knows. I would have asked her about it if I were you. Tell her just what you wrote here...you had lots of fun with her but was looking for something fresh and new.

I had to switch e-mail accounts early on in my providing due to a malicious man who kept constantly attacking me through random e-mail addresses that I could not block(I never had seen him, only refused to see him which set him off)
I informed everyone that I saw previously of my new e-mail. I did notice I had some of the same potential clients contact me through this new email, some I even labeled as "NO NO clients" on the previous email(time wasters, no shows etc.)

Since you had fun with her I would have started/continued the session with her and look for that something fresh next time. If I were in her shoes(and it was an honest mistake with the 2 phone numbers etc) I would be pissed to be told "oh no thank you, go home"  I once had a guy I didn't have good chemistry with and I vowed to not see him again. He had a very common name like "Mike". So on a whim he wanted to see me again and I thought he was a different "Mike". Would it have been rude of me to turn him away at the door?....YES, so I invited him in and we did our thing. I have since not seen him and made a mental note of this. Shit happens, move on and learn!

joannamarch.net See my TER Reviews 1067 reads
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I used to work for agencies in which you didn't get to pick your name.  You sometimes didn't even know your name until your first client said hello to you.

I had an interesting name years ago but my family found out so I dropped it and went back to college.
I took on a stripper name for dancing and escorted under than name but it was so obvious and a client couldn't say hello to me with that exotic name so I dropped that name months ago


I now have a plain jane name but I have a first and last name so that it looks more real if I am ever questioned by anyone for any reason.

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