Hi TER,

I'm new to the hobby and am very interested in some ladies, but they require references which I do not have. My question is, who are ladies that I can use a references if I see them?

This is ultimately to see this provider who I've been eying.

Thanks!

date check,p411, or rs2000, those site also have ad for providers who use the service.

On a serious note, see a well reviewed gal on TER, & treat her properly/respectfully & be clean (leave no poopy on her sheets), and she will surely be HAPPY to give you a good reference.

Good luck!

I am in a similar situation.  I am interested in a lady who uses Date Check, but I am retired (I know lucky SOB doesn't have to work).  This presents a problem, as Date Check does not check for retired men.  Any ideas how I might get references?

Try preferred 411. eom