Hello Everyone,
I am completely new to this and looking to try for the first time very soon. There's three questions I have.

1. Since I have never done this before what type of screening process should I look/be prepared for? I work in the legal profession so don't want to take on any unnecessary risk but at the same time I have no references.

2. This may be a very dumb question, but are you supposed to tip the provider? If so how much?

3. Do sessions generally last an hour or do providers try to keep you there longer?

4. Faces are very important to me, are providers ever willing to show a less pixelated facial picture prior to the session?

5. Any other Do's and Don'ts for a first timer?

Thanks.

Also, get a VIP membership here, it is very important to read reviews prior to making your final decision.
To answer your questions:
1) Screening, every provider's process is different however, be very afraid of those who do not ask for information (references, employment verification, combinations of two) in your case, it will be beneficial to sign up for either date-check, P411, RS2K. Stay away from Backpage, only see well reviewed providers with good marks.

2)Tips are never expected but greatly appreciated it. If you are seeing and independent, she has probably incurred into certain expenses to see you (hotel, babysitter, transportation etc.), if it is an agency girl, she is only taking home a part of the fee (usually 60% or less). Anywhere from $20 to $100 is fairly common, but once again that is never expected.

3)Sessions last as much as you want to arrange them for, no worries, we won't kidnap you and sometimes we may be able to extend the session if we don't have other plans.

4) Majority of providers who have their face blurred do it for privacy reasons, the VIP membership comes in handy for that, we will not send additional pictures due to privacy, but you can read all about us in the review (juicy details), keep in mind some ladies have real jobs, kids, go to school and other personal matters that can't be jeopardized with face pictures floating around.

5) Show up on time to the date, be courteous towards the lady, perfectly groomed and clean, be discreet if you are seeing her at a hotel, don't grab unnecessary attention from the front desk. Have the envelope readily available, make her feel comfortable. If you are planning to write a review, ASK the lady if she would like one first, it is common courtesy. Read the reviews entirely so you know the lady well and her services before you meet her. Feel free to ask as many questions on this board as you need to. We are here to help!

-- Modified on 11/7/2013 10:13:10 PM

Read the newbie primer and provider relations 101 in the self help section.  

Cheers,

CafeMoto

Thank you. All this information was very helpful.

1. The screening process varies greatly, hopefully it is sufficient so the provider feels safe seeing you and you are not LE.  A reputable provider or agency may want work info to verify your employment much like a creditor does and no one the wiser.  A verification site may do the same for a newbie.  There are some reputable providers that are newbie friendly who will work with you if you are uncomfortable with the work info.

2. No, you are not "SUPPOSED" to tip a provider.  It is strictly a voluntary act of kindness on your part.  The amount if you choose to is entirely up to you.  Believe me, it can pay back much more if you repeat with the provider, even small gifts go far, thes can be anything from a toy for there pet on up.

3.The length of a session is normally determined by how much of the Lady's time you book.  An hour session could be as little as the amount of time it takes for the provider to get you off, not a highly recommended provider by the way.  Usually a clock watcher is right at an hour.  Other Ladies' its about an houh an even more.  Depending on capatability, as well as other plans for that day or evening.

4. Pics are up to the provider as to her privacy concerns and such.  Some show faces, some partial, others none at all.  If not shown, don't ask.

5. Don't ask or speak of any specifics over phone, text, or email.  Remember you are paying for her time, nothing more.  Treat the Lady with respect due to a Lady.  If going to be late, call.  If have to cancel, call, with as much notice as possible.  If the provider has an etiquette list, follow it.  Don't try to go beyond the boudaries a provider is comfortable with.  Be a gentleman, be safe and secure.

1.  Every provider has her own screening methods, there is no set way of doing it.  Some are more thorough and maybe invasive than others, it's up to you as to how much info you are comfortable giving.
2.  Many guys, like me, do not tip, but I always take gifts.
3.  Session length, you decide how much you want to spend and how much time you want to spend with her, depending on what she offers.
4.  Many providers do not show their face for privacy or security reasons.
5.  As Ron said, never mention specific sexual acts on the phone, in email, texts, or any communication with her.  You will be immediately terminated by most providers.  If you do your research thoroughly, you should not have to ask.

Courtesy is always a good thing to practice, in the hopefully unlikely event that you have to cancel.  She's the provider, so follow her rules of etiquette, etc.

Swim

your CPA, attorney, dentist, etc.? I doubt it. However, I tip the person who cuts my hair as I'm sure many others here do.

The difference, the person cutting your hair doesn't make $$$ an hour but your doc, attorney, etc. are quite well off.

2. Repeat dates are the best tip you can give!! If you want to bring a gift but not sure what to bring chocolate is always a good choice.  I don't know one lady who doesn't love it.  

4. If a provider doesn't show her face, please don't assume she isn't pretty. I've heard that too many times on forums.  

Happy Hobbying