If you don't have VIP status you need to get it for at least a month to read the full escort reviews.

Read the self-help center 2 or 3 more times and read back 10 - 15 pages on this board.

Stay away from BP and Websites until you have lots of experience.  Pick your ladies from the selection of excellent providers that have been reviewed SEVERAL time on this site. Some of them are even nice enough to post on our boards and they advertisd on the regional ad boards.

VIP status will allow you to search your geographic location for good providers.  Unless you fall into the dreaded "other" category.

From your handle, I take it to mean you are relatively young in hobby terms.  Many providers will not see anyone under 30-35, so look for ones that will, as I'm guessing you were born in 83.  Do your research here.  Since you have not seen anyone yet, look for newbie-friendly providers in your area.  BP is ok to look, but you need to check here for reviews, or any other site that posts reviews.  Do NOT see someone that has not been reviewed somewhere, and most BP girls do not have reviews, at least that is the case in my area.  

You need VIP membership here to read the important stuff in the reviews, so suck it up and get it, pay for at least a month.   Research means reading reviews, she should have at least 5-10 by reviewers that have written at least that any reviews.   PM the reviewers if you want more info.   If need be, join one or more of the verification sites, DateCheck, Preferred411, or RoomService2000, check in your area to see what is most popular where you are.   Look at her posts on your regional board, this will help get an idea of her personality.