I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF PROVIDERS ARE CONCERNED WITH HOW THE CLIENT LOOKS I AM A WELL GROOMED CLEAN MAN 46 YO BUT SOMEWHAT OVER WEIGHT IS THIS SOMTHING I SHOULD BRING UP BEFORE MEETING A PROVIDER?

Learn not to do that!  Ladies really don't care so long as you're clean, well groomed, and not trying to pull shit on them.  You should let her know about your physical attributes in your initial communique.  Most won't hold the fact that you overweight against you...

Thanks for the response I will work on that..