I've set up by email my first appointment with a providers. She sounds very nice and is well-reviewed. Here's my nervouse nellie question: she has told me the date and time but I haven't heard anything since (it's 2 days from now). When can I expect her to tell me more and how does that work?

tell her you're really looking forward to seeing her and ask her when she prefers to give out info re the name of hotel or general area for you to come to.  This is part of what's known as the "two call system."  The first call says "be at the so-and-so hotel at 3 pm," or "be at the corner of 33rd and 3rd at 3 pm."  When you call in from that spot you are given the room # or street address.
But don't expect a call or email until the evening before at the earliest or the late morning of, depending on the time of day for your appointment.
Of course, there's always the chance you'll get blown off.  That's just a risk you take.  Have some backup plans available.  Being known to an agency is one good way.  You can call them last minute and be good to go.  One thing to never do is make two appoinments and blow one of them off when your preferred girl comes through.
Good luck and I hope your first experience is a great one.  If you've done your homework right, it should be.

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Same day details are common. Since your communication has been by email, you can send her an email telling her how much you are looking forward to your date and to receiving more specific information as to where to be at the appointed time. Often that's sufficient to trigger a response, even if it is" I'll send you the information on _____ morning". That way you'll be reassured that everything is on track.
Good luck!

Thanks for that advice. Sounds like it's a little early for me to be worrying.

Although you have a time and date set, you should have a confirmation time already set as well. Some ladies have you confirm the morning of, some a couple hours ahead of time & others an hour before the scheduled appointment time... if you do not have a confirmation time, then how will you or her, know if the appointment is still set? I would ask her if there is a time she would like you to call so you can confirm the appointment on that day... which is when you usually receive the address of the location at this time.

has changed on his end. I always tell my suitors to CALL me the day of so I can hear their voice and then I give them the location. If that call never comes through, I just move on. I will not stalk a client to ask why he did not follow through.

Hi everyone!! I haven't had the opportunity to get my first. Still trying to get past the hard part.Eventually I will do it. A lot of providers give you a lot of difficulty when you're black which is odd? I myself enjoy all races, and do not negotiate rates nor waste any one's time. I guess blacks have been giving too many of the beautiful women a hard time. I apologize for that..But please give a person a chance..