Had my first incall experience last week. Saw an ad on backpage, saw reviews on TER, and gave it a shot. Very nice female and agreed on price/date/time.  Of course I was a little nervous, but went to the hotel room. I was let in and we talked for about two minutes (small talk). She said to get ready so I got undressed and laid on the towel on the bed. She also got undressed (nude massage) and she started to massage me.  About 15 minutes into it, she started to rub herself on me and then she position herself to where my hand was between her legs, actually touching her vagina.  Most of the time, I just laid there enjoying the massage. I did start to rub the back of her legs and butt and she did not seem to mind.  But she kept grinding herself on my hand/fingers. I rubbed her vagina on the outside (no penetration). She seems to enjoy it and did not prevent me doing so.

So.. was my actions appropriate?  If the she was not comfortable, would she say so?

I did thank her and said it was an awesome massage. She texted me about 15 minutes after I left saying "she enjoyed giving me a massage and looking forward to give me another one. Save my number!"

I definitively will be going back to her.