I recently visited Vegas for my birthday along with memorial day. I'd thought about reaching out on TER before but never had the full inclination let alone the gull of how or where to begin. After a couple of days I put all caution to the wind and said why not? I spent a lot of hours researching and found someone I could appreciate intellectually as well as physically! So I went ahead and set it up.

The problem was that I was such a bundle of nerves I couldn't help but feel like I put her on guard. We had good conversation in my opinion! However I can't help shake the feeling like I acted so awkwardly that I feel like I might have put her off to a potential future encounter.  -No I'm not trying to be a creep.- Its honestly why I'm here. I don't want to inundate her with correspondence and come across as a crazy!  

So I guess my question is now that I've gone through my first encounter; and feel confidence, and a bit more ease with everything. How would one go about asking for that second chance? How would you all approach this? Perhaps there was nothing wrong with the experience, but I do in fact tend to err on the analytical side of things. I know I cannot speak for her, but I can speak for myself; and I feel like if given another chance I could potentially right a wrong and do things differently! Any advice would be much appreciated

It'll be up to the lady if she wants to see you again.  If she denies, move on and find someone else.

If you try to make another date with her, the worst that can happen is that she says no.  In that case, find someone else, there are plenty out there.  If she says yes, then go for it.

Good luck,
Swim

and so usually aren't shaken by that.


As long as you are not a danger to them it will be fine.

Go ahead and make her day.

8o)

And you aren't there for her, you are there for you.  

It is a business transaction.

You are paying for YOU to have a good time and that is ok. She is ok with that. It is what she does. So just make sure you have a good time and the rest will take care of itself.  

Finally, your scale of reference is waaaaaay off. Being nervous around your first provider is not a wrong you have to right!  

I say see someone else who turns you on. And then, if you still want to see your first again, go for it.

First times can be a challenge but unless you actually did something that made the provider either leave or kick you out -- or repeatedly tell you to stop doing something -- you're probably fine and just make another appointment as others have suggested.

I am curious about the potential wrong you're looking to right? If you don't feel like sharing details, or even the general concern, that's fine but you might get better answers to your question if you still have any doubts.

Then relax! She is a professional and I'm sure well versed in "jitters" ... It's our job to understand and help you get through the first date. Request another appt. with her or another provider, good luck and enjoy! Also ... Welcome to the hobby