...It's better to tell her beforehand in case she's uncomfortable with seeing virgins.

Since you can't mention anything sex-related, you'll have to say something like you've never had private time with any women.

When you're looking at the newbie board, look for the life preserver picture.  It's the Self-Help Center, and it's an invaluable tool for newbies.  A lot of what I learned can be found in there.

Think of where you're going.  If it's an upscale hotel, are you going to blend in wearing jeans and a tee?  It's not really about getting into a hotel going "unnoticed," rather it's knowing where you're going and not looking out of place.  But even if you did stick out like a sore thumb, chances are that staff aren't going to bother you.

I would email/text her or the agency beforehand to let them know about your inexperience. It probably won't be a deal breaker, but some girls are uncomfortable with it.  Most likely she'll be okay with it and understand that she's going to have to "run the show."

First of all...breathe....................

Second of all, not to sound like a mother hen, but make sure you want this woman you chose to be your 'first' time. You only get that once in your lifetime, so be sure that's what you really want to do. Once it is done, there is no going back even tho you want to 'get it off your back' as you stated. And remember, the first time is truly just that...a first time, you won't have any expectations as to what you should feel or how 'it' should feel, so just go with the flow and let her walk you thru it. If she is truly a winner, she will make you feel as comfortable as a girl you've been with for months before being intimate. And yes, you should tell her, that is a must and any gentleman with any respect for any woman anywhere would do the same.  

Enjoy yourself amongst your nerves, and yes you will be nervous, hell I would be LOL if I were in your shoes. Just breath and remember, let her lead in this scenario since you decided to go with the P4P world as your first time.  

Treat her like a lady and all will be good for both involved.

Smile

T

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Please, dear god, do not do things you've seen in porn. That is not real life. In no way does she want you slapping her with her junk, shoving things into holes, non stop fucking, etc.  

 Second, I don't recommend an agency girl for your first time. Find someone independent and local and get some mileage under your belt, some one you can learn from. Not a girl rushing because the agency is going to call her five minutes before your time is up.

 Third, make sure you can see her for more than one hour. At least two, but preferably 3-4. Take your time, have dinner with her, do something other than stare at her tits. make it as natural as possible.

Four, warn her in advance. Some may turn you down because being someone's 'first' is a lot of pressure. I was very upset to hear that in college I was my bf's first. I wish I had known, then it wouldn't have been in a rush on a top bunk hoping my room mate didn't get back early. ;]

Maybe even think of doing this in stages. You don't have to do *everything* the first time you meet a girl. Maybe it's worth it to find a local provider who you can afford to see a few times. Have dinner or a drink (one!) and then go back to the room and just make out. Just learn what intimacy is like at first. Tell her you just want to go little by little. Maybe get a little handsy the first time, but don't expect to come, don't expect to make her come, just enjoy the feelings. The second time, oral it is. Learn those sensations, ask her how she likes it, and get used to this new form of intimacy. The third time - go for the sex.  

This is how intimacy happens for the vast majority of people. They don't just get it over with. When I lost my virginity, I did it in stages, though not with the same guy. The actual sex part - yeah, that I just wanted to get it out of the way, but mainly because I wanted to know what the big deal was!

Oh, and to the others' points about not using an agency girl - the DC area has a couple agencies that have very highly reviewed and well-respected girls. It may actually make things easier - he can tell the booker that he is a virgin, and they can relay it to the girl. That way he doesn't feel awkward about having that conversation directly with the provider.

Jenn

That can get a bit tricky and depends upon circumstances.

If it is a large busy hotel, and you are wandering around trying to find the elevator, just tell them you are trying to find out where they are.  Hopefully they will just direct you to the elevators and not bother you.  Don't tell them that you are a guest because then they'll want to know your name and room number and you'll be busted.  If they persist, then there's a good chance they are on to you, and the safest thing would be to say something like:  "Oh, I just remembered I need to get something out of my car.", and cheese it.

Call the provider and tell her what happened.  Maybe you can wait a while and try again.

It is good to have the provider tell you where the elevators are so you aren't wandering around raising suspicions.

Wear whatever you want. As far as hotels, make sure she is in one that does not require a key card, and if it does, to meet you in the bar area not just by the doors. I would never see a virgin for pay...just not happening, but I doubt you'll have to convince most providers to take your money. It is simply not my thing, is all.