So I'm joining TER VIP as a client. But what do I do to get a provider to see me when I'm new and have never seen a provider. I read the faq but still a bit confused. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you.

...off to a good start with a provider.

 

Second - it may be just a coincidence (or not), but your handle bears a striking similarity to a nut who was on TER a few years ago.  Change your handle.

 

Third - change your handle.

1. Do a search for Provider reviews in your area; you can use the Advanced Search function to narrow down what you’re looking for.

 
2. When you find a Lady who tickles your fancy, study her TER profile and read her reviews.  Also checkout her personal ad site and study up on it as well.  Note: the rates listed on her website and/or P411 profile are usually the correct ones; the rates listed on TER profiles are often out of date.

 
3. Respect and follow her requirements and guidelines (preferred contact methods, screening, rates, who she will and won’t see, etc).  This shows that you’ve done your homework and are serious about seeing her.  If her prices are to high, her screening methods make you to uncomfortable or you don’t match what she’s looking for (e.g., she’s not newbie friendly), then just move on.
 

4. When you contact her to make an appointment, be specific about what you want (within the excepted hobby vernacular, of course).  Example: “I’ve read your reviews and am very interested in seeing you; how about a 1 hour incall this Sunday at 2pm?”  You’ll both probably go back and forth until you settle on the specifics.  A lot of Ladies screen (as they should); you’ll probably want to set your first appointment a few days to a week out so they’ll have time to do their thing.  Having a P411 profile usually helps expedite the screening process.  
WARNING: /never/ mention anything about specific services, sex acts or money when setting up an appointment; that’s what the dreaded LE does - doing so will probably cause her to cut communication and block you.
 

Once you’ve seen a particular Provider for the first time, everything becomes much more relaxed and making appointments with her becomes routine.

 
Good luck!

 
Edited for typos and clarity 🧐

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These are the ones to focus on for now.  You should pay for VIP membership so that you can do proper research on here and read reviews.

 
You should also join a screening service like P411.   Do a ssearch on that on here and you'll find scads of posts about how that works.

 

 

Welcome to TER.

Joining P411 will make screening so much easier with most ladies, you can search on P411 to find local ladies and then find one that's newbie friendly. Look on TER to she if she has reviews so you can read them to get an Idea of what services she does and how a typical session would go, check her website for her rules and donation this is very important.

When I find a lady that interests me, I always email her with all the required information, my P411 ID the date and times I'm looking for and usually I will tell them a little bit about myself so they know what to expect.
Good luck

Ok so I will have to make a new account then for new handle correct. Not trying to offend anyone or scare people off. So thanks for the tip.

check ladies on twitter... we do have a good network database in our followers.

you can sign up for P411. use the following link!  
and u get 6 months free....  

...bottom of any page to contact TER Admin. and request that your handle be changed because of the circumstances of which you (apparently) were unaware.

I am having trouble finding any newbie friendlies on here in the Atlanta  area. I have used agencies but I’m having no luck

Amazon, huh?  Hmmm... I wonder if there /is/ market for something like that?  🤔

Do you mean Newbie Friendly as in the P411 tag?  For that, you should get a P411 account; it’s my understanding that you can then search P411 for that tag (or any other).

 
I did for quick TER search for Atlanta, Georga (15 mile radius)  and found a couple of ladies who are P411 Newbie Friendly right off the bat.  Also, check out the TER profiles for well-reviewed independents in you area; many tend to be “newbie friendly” even if they don’t have a P411 account or belong to an agency.

 
Remember: unless you’re a thrill seeker (😳) stick to /well-reviewed/ Providers.

What is the yellow star behind the names of providers?

The yellow star marks providers that you have added to your own personal favorite list here. Click on "My TER" and go to Favorites if you want to see your list and maybe edit it.

I'd also suggest making a candid post on your regional board -- that's an easy way to get providers who are newbie-friendly and up your alley to say hello, so you can check out their sites and read their reviews more easily.