Just research and make sure you go with someone with a lot of reviews.  I would also make sure the reviews are current.  I'm new as well and have only seen one provider.  I took this same advice from others and it worked out fine.

Post on the appropriate local board that you are a newbie looking for a newbie-friendly provider. Be prepared to give some personal info like where you work and a phone number.

Some suggest the verification sites like date check or P411, but usually you can find a well-reviewed provider who will screen you. Just gave an extra day or two for the process.

-tessen

I too am relatively new, having seen just two ladies.

The first had asked for an industry reference, which of course I couldn't provide......

So, once I was comfortable with her via email, we chatted once on the phone and I gave her the pertinent information she needed to be comfortable in seeing me.

Remember, in all of this you ALSO need to protect yourself......

I did considerable research before I selected my first lady, she was well reviewed on another board, and I also got a good comfort level when corresponding with her, before giving her all my personal information.....

Be diligent and do your homework, make sure you are comfortable as well.....

Good luck !