and since you met her, it is also grounds for a review, which I hope you will write.

It will be doing her a favor as it may compell her to clean up her act, so to speak.

No client should be subjected to being in such an atmosphere.

...and you are the customer. If you're not satisfied with the experience (and ambience is a big part of the shopping experience), then you are well within your rights to say right at the beginning that, "Sorry this isn't going to work for me." Offer her a cancellation fee and leave. If she wants to know why, then you can go into detail as to why you're not comfortable; perhaps that will be  a "light bulb" moment for her and inspire her to clean up her act -- and her place!

Write the review, be honest and let's see if she values customer feedback --

So I meet this provider who has a nice web site and great reviews and was very much anticipating spending a couple hours with her.  I walk through her neighborhood and it's new, nice and clean.  I knock on the door; she opens it and invites me in.  It's a little dark so my eyes take a moment to adjust.  Once things are in focus I realize the place is a mess.  There is a small kitchen with so much stuff you couldn't walk into it and the stove is piled with papers and other stuff.  There was a partition which I assume was separating the bedroom from the living room.  At the foot of the partition was stacked even more stuff.  The dresser had candles on it but I was wondering if things would catch on fire.  There was no chair but there was a bed upon which I was asked to leave my clothes.  We didn't spend any time sitting and chatting (no where to sit) just hop on the table.  The table was in the middle of the room and she had plenty of space to walk around it.  The bathroom was thankfully, spotless.  

My question is could I have walked out at that point?  I was a bit disappointed with her looks but I can go with that.  It's just that the place was so messy I felt like the massage was an afterthought.  My initial reaction was to give her 50, apologize and be on my way.  I stuck it out and my feelings about the massage being an afterthought were confirmed.  Just wondering if / how I could have bailed at the beginning based on the condition of the apartment.

One of the nice things about this hobby is the choices that are available.  Assuming that the reviews you read gave no indication of the "pig sty" you encountered, you would have been well within your perogative to take a pass (and I would have told the provider that the conditions are not OK).  By continuing on and paying her for her "time" with you being uncomfortable is giving her the green light to continue on with this and now the next customer will encounter the same situation (assuming you don't review this and make sure to highlight the conditions).

If you are not comfortable you should let the lady know,because at this point the experience will be down hill from there.You could've told the lady that her place is not somewhere you want to stay and did like your first initial reaction get the hell out of there!I agree I would post this info in a review to warn other gentleman so they already know what they're walking into.Who knows some gentleman might not care,but I think most would find your info helpful.

I did post a review and discribed the pig sty effect.  I try to have a lot of respect for the girls and didn't want to offend but I see the point: it is a customer service industry.  This was the first provider I did not tip btw.  Next time I encounter a situation like this, I'll deal with it a little more confidently basis your feedback.  Thanks!

I always give the option to leave. Your best bet was to just give her the 50 and respectfully leave. Why lay their and stress yourself out. Your suppost to be haveing fun silly... xoxo