There is a provider that stays in my apartment complex three buildings over and has two reviews.is there anything wrong with stopping over one late night or is it to close for comfort.

My first ever client lives only a block away..... I think we can trust each other. I've been seeing him for two months..... 6 sessions,  guess he's  pleased, huh?

Even if you see her walking in the neighborhood or the local supermarket - at most you will get a smile.
If she is a "pro" none of your neighbors will ever know (unless they catch you going into her apartment! LOL!)

1) She only has two reviews, and that is reason enough on this board to tell you to stay away.

2) There are too many women out there that dont live in your complex to fk. Why possibly create an extra hassle in your "real" life in case something goes bad and she knows/finds out you live so close?

Move on to girl #2 on your list.

If you want to see her as a client, than do it the hobby way.   Be respectful of her lifestyle.  I suggest you see her first w/o letting her know you live in the same apt. complex, unless she already knows that you live in the same place you live.  Just make a date like you would with any other provider.

The two reviews would be a problem if they are reviewers with only one of two reviews.  The fact that she  lives and does incall there is a two-headed monster if you see her.  It could work both in your favor or NOT.  You have no way of knowing, so do the research on her just as you would on any other provider.

Swim

Why not stand outside her apartment and hold up a sign saying "hooker lives here".

Reverse the situation...would you want some other john in your complex to just mosey on over and shoot the shit with you?  

Might be creepy...right?  Maybe you get a restraining order on the nutcase?  

Nope...not a good idea!

CPA hit the nail on the head.

If I had someone randomly knock on my door to ask for an appt, the first thought through my head is that I may get blackmailed or stalked. I wouldn't see you and I would think of moving. Even if you were a regular, it is not ok to just pop on by whenever you feel like it. This is exactly why I do not do incall, brings nothing but headaches when guys feel it is ok to just pop on by. What if she had company over (another guy, family/friends)? Always call no matter how long you have known her. It is scary when someone you don't know, KNOWS what is going on. No matter how well meaning you are, it will freak her out by coming over like that.

that was also the case, and you want to know if it's ok to stop by? For what...chess? Hell no! Are you married? Live with anyone? Would you like a provider to just "stop by one late night?" Get real! If she did not tell you she was a provider, then how can you be so sure?

Ladies...still wonder why it is dumb as hell to play where you eat? Nuff said.

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Which would make sense in light of the rest of his poorly worded sentence. At least thats how I read it. Dont think he meant he was coming over unannounced. I mean, I hope not.

...recognizes her as a provider.  His post IS poorly worded but I think he just wants to know if he should hobby so close to home.  No one in his right mind would knock on the door of a provider he has never met or contacted.

at some random hour to say hi lol. I would flip the hell out if someone did that to me, which is why I don't tell people where I live.

No I was just asking was it a good idea.I would set appointments in advance like any other client.I would never just stop by.Thanks for all your afvice and input.

Swim her two reviws have a combined 30 reviews (16 for one and 14 for the other). One even has white list referral.

It's really unwise to be providing from where she sleeps & hope she is not.   You should book like any other client & don't mention you know where she lives or you recognize her...  she'll likely freak out & probably hang up...  
I don't know how well you are known or the community you live in.  Would it hurt if you are recognized in her building?  Because that close to home, you likely will be.
NEVER show up without an appointment.
HV

she was offering from a hotel right by the highway on-ramp...  everybody from this town drives right by the lot facing the street.  I'd have to be stupid to go there.