she needs to play an active role even in the search aspect.

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Hi,

My SO is interested in having an experience with a woman and has asked me for help.   I am fine with this and am happy to help but I need to know what are best ways to go about contacting providers to make this happen?  


-- Modified on 11/16/2010 7:30:30 AM

Don't know if it's new, just have heard that's how it is. I read the boards all the time and have seen it mentioned time and again.

If I'm wrong my apologies, but I am pretty sure that's how it works.

you could do an advanced search for bi providers who see couples.

You didn't make it clear in your original post that she wanted to see someone alone. She would do better contacting the women herself without you.

As for the bitchiness of your last post .... no comment.

Here, no more aliases (please keep debating this fascinating point).  Wow shifted from the erotic highway  to faq for newbs,  (thanks LG didn't think this was as important as how long to wait to get rimmed after taking a shit anyway maybe I will take Interstate Thanatos next time, heard it is faster anyways less erectile dysfunction.  Mini rant over.  Thanks for the helpful suggestions.  Yes I looked for women who see couples in my area (this should be a selection in the searching of reviews form unless it is and I missed it, more than one guy yes, two girls yes, couples no).  My concern is contacting providers that I do not know if they are interested in seeing a woman alone  and the best way about asking them if they would, without freaking them out (hey lady see my girlfriend! and can I sit in the corner wearing a gorilla outfit make grunting noises while listening to free jazz and dancing with a dwarf while you two get it on?)  What a post, apologies for my vitriol and happy thanksgiving. and for the record I like LG and think she is refreshing and tremendously helpful when it comes to our issues of anuses, genital malfunction and overall sexual malaise (we need some more happy threads cruising down that highway) I am just busting her ovaries

Thanks for your help  JustUs .  Does anyone have any actual experience pertaining to my situation?  I would prefer to contact the provider first myself but if need be later or sooner on I will most certainly include my SO in the dialog.  As far as your comments about my bitchiness No Comment is a Comment....  General Discussion here I come.  No more polemics I promise.

A lot depends whether you have some providers you are already comfortable with.  If so, that would be one place to ask for suggestions.  When your SO starts looking and identifying her preferences, do a search and start reading the web pages more than the reviews.  If the provider of interest is someone who posts here, read her posts for clues she is/isn't interested in that kind of session.

As to screening, depending on the provider you approace she may or may not want to screen your SO seperately.  I know it gets posted her a lot that the SO/GF needs to be screened seperately, but that is not necessarilly the case.  Each provider is different.  Some, especially if they have seen you, may take your vouch in this case.

When I've done it I have always made the first contact with the provider to see if she is interested even as a "possible".  Then there have usually been e-mails between the GF and the provider (often phone calls or a meeting over coffee).  Only once was it a surprise for the GF, but in that case I had seen the provider a number of times and she was more than happy to do it.

This is an area that really doesn'y have a 1 size fits all.

Awesome info, thank you very much alfred11, your help is truly appreciated!