I have a question for the women here, and forgive me if this has been covered before. One of my passions is scuba diving, and I spend quite a bit of time traveling to great dive spots all over the world. I'm interested in possibly having a provider come along on some of these trips. My question for you is:
1) Do you enjoy going on extended trips with a client for the travel experience and guaranteed income? Or is it more of a pain since you have to be "on" for so much longer periods of time?And that goes both ways... Although the income opportunity can be great, it would not be that great if the parties involved don't get along e.g provider drinks too much and you don't or you do and she doesn't. I would say if it is a an extended situation (2 days +), it is best that each one gets their own room so you can have your privacy and so does she. Trips can be romantic, spontaneous and exhilarating, but we still need to wind down, take a nap, put a facial mask on, read a magazine, call our family for which, a separate room is ideal. Obviously at night you can reunite and have fun during the day, but each person needs personal private time otherwise you can get sick of each other quickly. I guess the story differs but more likely people will think you guys are dating, just make up something not too elaborated and easy to remember. I think what makes the worst travel partners is lack of communication and agreement on situations or when one tries to cross the pre established boundaries of the harmonic scenario that should prevail during the trip.
And yes, we do enjoy romance, candlelit dinners, and long walks at the beach, but more importantly, we enjoy the company of a gentleman who appreciates the time we are taking away from our personal affairs and family even if there is compensation involved.
-- Modified on 3/14/2014 8:17:19 PM
....regarding separate rooms. I have never had my own room, and never asked.
I make it clear from the beginning that we will not be spending 24/7 together, for the reasons you mentioned, but there is no need to have your own room to do so. While I realize that if a gentleman can afford to gift you for an extended date, he can easily afford a second room, however, there are times when this is not possible. I have been on several cruises (small ships) and the cost including a single supplement would be prohibitive. We could have another extended date!
I believe that if you find a lady such as Palomam, or myself, you will find that we are not "on"; we truly do enjoy traveling with the right gentleman.
Again, Palomam; great post!
Hugs,
Kelly
Having traveled myself with Kelly, I second her view--traveling with the right person to the right place can be a fabulous experience!
-- Modified on 3/15/2014 6:05:15 AM
and I do extended dates all the tine. Actually I am on an unplanned one right now. She is sleeping peacefully a few feet away from me as I type this. We drank way too much last night and it looks like our plans to drive to the beach this morning have now changed to driving to the beach this afternoon.
I can't speak for the ladies, but I treat an extended P4P date the same as I would any multi day date with a lady. We all need a little space and just because I have a one room rule doesn't mean I am up her ass all day, no one wants to be together24 hours a day with someone. That's not a hobby thing, that's just a simple matter of respect that most of us would extend to any woman that we were dating.
(No F*ing Way) I'm not saying there is not need or want for a few minutes of privacy. A suit type hotel Would be nice. A room with a sitting area or couch. As we have discussed recently in other threads... actual sleeping or at least some sleeping, might need to be apart because of snoring, RLS, or ?? With the understanding of rejoining in the main bed in the morning.
Both parties should be sensitive to the situation... they might want to share a shower... sometimes. Other times she might want to shave her legs or wash her hair in peace.
She might want to phone home to check in or he might want to make business calls.
Some might want shower & coffee... before play... Why not?
I would think that the couple would become BF/GF for the duration as far as intros go. Or simply 'friend'. No one needs to know how long you were friends for.
....the gentlemen I have traveled with have always respected the fact that I need a bit of space, and it appears you do the same, as does Ric330.
I would never ask a gentleman to reserve a separate room for me. He probably gets that at home, and that is why he is with me!
In my opinion, if a lady wishes to have her own room to retreat to, it is on her dime, not the gentleman's.
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly
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