Then you won't have to ask. Of course, you'll need to be a vip member to access the juicy details.

To a reasonable extent, it proceeds exactly the way you want it to.  Once the date is set you can ask her to wear something that turns you on.  Once you're there, if she's a good provider, she'll be guided by you.  Do you want her to take the lead or do you want to tell her what you want from her.  The best providers are quite intuitive this way, which is a good reason to sick with well-reviewed girls.