I started seeing ladies about 4 years ago. My first was a massage parlor girl from Columbia who still visits me in my dreams. I saw her about 9 times and would love to see her again. But she is long since gone back home. (I suppose).
Then I moved to DC massage parlor girls and loves three ways with Asian girls that were total knock outs. The place on K street was amazing. They too are gone now. I wish I knew where. The massage parlor sceen is hard to find these days. So I was forced to find other ways to get laid without having to deal with relationships.
Then I found The Erotic Review. This is the best in my book.
I've lost count with the "ladies" I've seen. I think it has been 61 all together.  Maybe more. I think now I know a little information that might be a help to new guys who just need a woman for a while.
First; Eros is one of the best places I have found to find a lady. of course there is bigdoggie is too. Escorts.com and date-check is good idea to join. But in my book TER is the best. I ALWAYS come here to find reviews. It's saved me a lot of money and trouble. If there are any negative reviews....beware.
Secondly; It is my rule now never to see a woman that will not show her face in the pictures. 9 times out of ten you will be sorry. Or even worse. (Don't ask)
Thirdly; If there is a guy who wants to come in and check your room first and collect the money DO NOT LET HIM IN. That happened to be I think three times in Columbus. Well, two and then I had to help the little guy out of my door before he made his way in. I've found three good ladies to see there and I have stuck with them. (Hey I am horny, what can I say? Oh yes, a sweet latin girl who has moved somewhere was a great thrill on a summer night in Ohio.
Fourthly;  Ask them if they are GFE if they say no then say no thanks and GO TO THE NEXT. SIMPLE AS THAT.
If she is a game player it will come out with the answer. But be respectful. They are people too.
Fifthly; Asian woman are true love making beings. I don't know what it is but they are amazing. Never had a problem with one. Even the older ones seem to love to please.
SIXLY; If a girl has a bad attitude on the phone do not follow through with the "date". It will not be worth it no matter how Good looking she is.
Lastly; Independent ladies are the rule for me. However, I do use Miami Connections when they are around. They seem to always have ladies who can be trusted to do you right.
And remember this (listen all you governors especially) you don't have to pay more than 300 to get laid.
Oh yeah, Craigslist should be used as a last resort.

Be careful. And wear protection. ALWAYS!





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Please behave when dealing with this one,

jazz32

Sorry for listing names. I figured it wouldn't matter because they are on TER anyway in reviews.
Just wanting to help some guys keep from getting screwed....or get screwed.

Thankfully, I've been getting out all my aggression on the LV board lately, and I trust that GaGambler is covering P&R, so we'll just pretend to have missed this one.

And are willing to share some knowledge, thanks.

b-

With both good and bad experiences behind you, it was nice of you to share your stories here.

I do take exception with the negative terminology you use and your racial profiling... however, your experience is what you have experienced.  I will tell you though, if you call me a whore to my face YOU will be the one leaving with your blue balls before you can even tell if I would "bend over".  The least you should have for the ladies who agree to share intimate time with you is a bit of respect.  Why refer to us as "Ladies" and whores vs. simply ladies?

"First; Eros is one of the best places to find a lady. bigdoggie is too. Escorts.com and date-check is good idea to join. TER is the best in my book."

I just wanted to reinforce the idea of using TER to support the selection of ladies from Eros, Escorts.com and the other sites.  In some areas, those sites are known to be rife with bad ads and just a bit of research can help avoid problems.
: )

"It is my rule now never to see a woman that will not show her face in the pictures. 9 times out of ten you will be sorry."
I'm sorry to hear your experience.  Then again, most of the top notch ladies that I meet will NOT show their face in photos.  Who wants to be in the grocery store being leered at by the numerous men who may recognize the face?  Who wants to go out to a lovely meal with a VIP special client and worry that anyone watching will recognize her and therefore cast aspersion on her date?  Many ladies take the face out to protect themselves, their family and their friends.  Reviews are a much better indicator of the face-hiding has nefarious purposes, than assumptions.

"if there is a guy who wants to come in and check your room first and collect the money DO NOT LET HIM IN."

Wow!  I agree!  In fact, if that is even suggested... I wouldn't let the lady in either.  It sounds like trouble in the works...

"Why call a whore if she isn't going to put out. Get them to tell you if they are true GFE or tell them no thanks and GO TO THE NEXT."

Did you forget to read your reviews?  The lady shouldn't have to tell you anything.

"Oh yeah, Craigslist should be used as a last resort. A lot of Cops use it. They all don't know about TER and EROS it seems."

Trust me here, LE knows all about TER and EROS, and they do use them.  Stick with doing your homework before setting dates and you should be fine...

"Be careful. And wear protection. ALWAYS!"

: D

Thanks again for your post, and thank you for indulging me in my reply.

I didn't mean to offend a "lady". Just to help some guys. There was nothing negative about the race said at all. What was negative in the statement was that out of the several "ladies" I have seen who happened to be African American (who ALL had GFE in their promos) were just there to take my money and play games to get around the only reason I wanted her there. As I recall now after thinking about it....I think three out of about nine beautiful African American "ladies" were dolls and people I would be honored to be true friends with. I just think guys should beware.

Remember I've seen over 61 prostitutes and I can tell you that I've read reviews and read web pages that stated GFE only to find out that she was not.  

Come to think of it. Maybe they were sick at the sight of me. I have a few stories to tell about hairy legs, smelly pits, mouths and holes to tell myself to be sure. I am sure a "lady" does too.

I guess it does come out bad when it is being read. But after loosing about $1800 of hard earned money I felt it important enough to post.

Also, the reason I used the term "ladies" was because I think women who do this type of work are what they are because of what they do. I did not mean to imply that they are not human beings with feelings and not worthy of respect as human beings. But they are not "ladies" in the purest sense of the word. Come on. Well at least as most would define a lady. I really don't need to explain that one.

But a prostitute by any other name is still a prostitute. I didn't invent the terms HO, Whore, Hooch(?), Hussy or Jezebel and lastly "women of the night". I think "lady" is much better myself.

Don't forget  I am not a pro writer. I just wanted to share some thoughts and be a help to new guys out there who are like I was and need to get laid without the games.

Signed a "JOHN" by another name.

The message and intent of your post is not only appreciated, but in keeping with the general intent of this board and site.  Namely, to help others by passing on your experience(s).  So, thank you.

That being said, and as identified by our illustrious board leader (or is that bored leader?), you need to work on the delivery of your message.  While this is a site and discussion about the oldest profession, we don't have to treat the ladies through our language and post content, as if we are back in the olden days when they were considered less than us.  Respect will always be appreciated and expected, and unless you and the lady are in the throes of passion and getting your kink on, the word "whore" should be reserved for the lawyers who post on the legal corner board (relax guys, I am one ).

When you adapt your delivery of the message to the audience, then the message is better received.

Good luck

And if you haven't surmised by now a GOOD percentage of us have very good heads on our shoulders. We speak with distinction, knowledge, and passion. In viewing what we have brought together for you as the 'Hobby' to decipher and relate to your needs in our websites and you still have not found out weather or not we GFE....is quite confusing and disheartening to a degree.
Again...this is JMHO.

xoxo
Diana

*nevermind.  I think my post is pointless.*

Good luck in your future endeavors!

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lol. you must not have read the post. She was offended by me calling them ladies in my first post. You can't win sometimes. I was trying to relate my info to men. Not the ladies who work.

I really wasn't out for anything but getting the word of warning and whatver else to men who are new to this.

I'll try and overlook this one too, but it's tough. I'm glad that Spitzer has given us someone else to pick on.

Only because you said "please".  I really could have a great deal of fun with it otherwise...

*pouting*

xoxo,
S.

It’s called find your inner gentleman. He seems to be lost.

Immediately after your OP, the moderator of this forum felt the need to post a reminder to everyone to “play nice” when responding to you. Why? Because, the basic content of your message includes some helpful info, but it was presented in distasteful way and you were in danger of being flamed for being a jerk regardless of your intent. You got that part, right? The overall tone of the post has an undercurrent of disrespect. But referring to providers as whores?  C’mon.

Now you say, quote: “lol. you must not have read the post. She was offended by me calling them ladies in my first post. You can't win sometimes”

Huh…that’s not how I remember this. Interesting  that you modified your post to remove the more unsavory parts---like oh…:let me see… “"Why call a whore if she isn't going to put out. Get them to tell you if they are true GFE or tell them no thanks and GO TO THE NEXT."

Under the circumstances people have been very nice to you, and have given you praise for the intended content of your OP, and gently tried to point out that your language and attitude was rude and unnecessary. Clearly that has been a useless waste of time.

Believe what you believe. But, remember this is not a back alley, a truck-stop, or a crack-ho no-tell motel on NY ave.  And to other ‘newbies’:  please do not behave like this, ahem, gentleman.

That is playing as nice I can.....the alternate post would have been much more fun

I doubt there is a gentleman to be found, hidden or otherwise.

To the OP, do yourself and the rest of us a favor and quit while you're behind, you're not making any friends here and you're not being helpful in the least, even with your "vast" experience. I doubt that any further explantations by you will be met with a civil a response as you have enjoyed so far.

If you've been with 61 "prostitutes" (his words), and you want to help us, why haven't you posted any reviews?

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-- Modified on 3/12/2008 2:08:18 PM

If you didn't need the info in the post then it wasn't for you.

Might be helpful to someone else along the way. if it is, great. if not then what is the problem with putting info out there.

I never did start doing reviews. I really just got into do anything on this site except take advantage of the info until yesterday.

Thanks

If you didn't need the information on the post then it is not for you. My advice to you is to move on the next post.

As to your suggestion to stop my posting...If someone attacks my character or my intentions in the post then I will respond if I wish, of course if the moderator allows me to do so. It is my right. How people react to the post is their business.

I am not very concerned about your liking me or not or finding the post helpful to you at all. I am just posting like many others.

I have just as much right as you do or anyone else to post whatever I wish here. If the moderator puts it up then fine. If not...that is fine too.

Someone might need what information I have added as helful somewhere down the line.

It is a wonderful thing to meet a wonderful woman who loves her business. She can make a man who has been broken and lonely feel like a King.

I also know through my "vast" experience that it is easy to throw $300+ down the toilet by not finding out everything possible about this.

Not to mention the horrible threat involed of hurting loved ones, or even ging to jail.

At least I tried to help someone instead of setting on my butt not concerned about another persons safety and...fun.

and, before I've had a chance to check back, a couple of very astute posters have pointed out how disingenuous (look it up) you have been by modifying your post and then pretending you didn't say what you did in the original post.  Your 2nd, 3rd, and 4th chances are being used up in the patience and understanding arenas with your insistence on taking issue with every response to your original posts that is in any shape or manner a constructive criticism.  

I did read your original post prior to your modification - I just didn't have time to respond, and by the time I did, you had modified it.  I'll admit that I didn't catch the modification prior to my response, but, frankly, I just couldn't bring myself to read such a poorly written and constructed post again.  Thankfully, Sola had the foresight to copy the more offending passages, and this one was the one I was referring to when I, as nicely as possible, suggested that you watch your language:

"Why call a whore if she isn't going to put out. Get them to tell you if they are true GFE or tell them no thanks and GO TO THE NEXT."

When you say that you are trying to relate the info to the men, I feel compelled to point out what should be obvious to even the most obtuse misogynistic poster (again, look them up), which is that you are writing on a public board and cannot control whether or not your reader is a man or lady.  Therefore, you should tailor your words and content as to not offend if you want your message to be taken seriously and not just some misogynistic and racist ranting.

If you want to control the readership and limit it to just the men, write ten reviews (as the Hammer suggested, it shouldn't be hard after seeing 61 providers) and get admitted to the "reviewers only" board.  I tell you though, that you will still be asked not to denigrate the women.

Good luck, and I hope you took this the way it was intended.

Dude please stop while you are behind!!!  Maybe this will help learn something!

Here are the RED flags from your ORIGINAL POST lit, and why I posted a preemptive warning:

1) "ladies" (btw, you failed to delete a set of "").  By posting "ladies", you are implying that they are not!!!

2) Racial generalizations!  I glad you like Asians, but I'm sure that you will find that this group has at least its share of unsatisfactory encounters and ROB's.   Now why did you edit out your thoughts on African-American providers?!?

3) So just when do ask them if they are GFE?  On the phone?  Before you hand over the envelope?

4) It is nice to see that you are more respectful of the ladies.  Your ORIGINAL, UNEDITED post implied that if you don't like how the session is going, you will demand your money back, and show her the door.  Was that your advice to newbies?  If so, on what planet do you live?

I am also concerned about how you have responded to the VERY LIGHT criticism your post received.  It is not cool to go back and delete or re-word your post whenever someone objects to something you say.  This is particularly true when you adopt a the "if you don't like what I said, I guess my message wasn't for you attitude".

Please be more careful how you post,

jazz32

I am SO turned ON right now!!!!!

xoxo
Diana