It's the mid forties when time management skills come into play.

Now in my upper fifties I can't even depend on a second pop in two hours, but with a real good provider I can do so.

The day I fear will come when it will take all night to do what I used to do all night.

I have only experienced any sort of pop(crakle or otherwise lol), with a provider who was intent on making it happen. Some just blindly throw the responsibility in your lap. Others refuse to take NO as an answer.


OH MY KINGDOM!!!!!


BTW; no ones as old as mrfisher. His case is a rarity. LMAO

As a newbie, nerves seem to take control and I struggle to get one pop. But my last session I was relaxed ( and charged up ) so had no problems. If I book a 2 hour session , am I likely to have multiple pops? I am in my early 30's if that helps and very healthy.

Obviously age is an issue, but that cannot be controlled.

To a degree, low levels of testosterone, which declines with age, can be controlled.

Fitness can be controlled, as can rest & fluids.

The number one factor which (IMO) is most discounted, as we age (IMO) is the mental game. It is himan nature to think, "Oh, I could do that when I was twenty (but now I'm 50)."

Using myself as an example... I am nearly 50 and not fit these days.

For an hour session, the first pop is easy (I would have to pick very poor;y to have an issue with the first pop). A second pop is pretty standard, though one lady did such a number on the first round that a second was not going to happen. There have been a few ladies that a second cup didn't happen. Sometimes it's them and other times it's my mental game.

With the right ladies I can go three in 90 minutes, and the other day I had an extremely rare session with a lady that (despite my mediocre interest in her) managed three cups in under an hour, including two showers and a (very short) intro. It's all in a positive mental attitude toward the task at hand. The lady in question was into serious PSE and was not going to cease ANY festivities until our time was up, or I said "Uncle."

Cut yourself some slack, first. Second, find ladies with whom you're comfortable. Additional time might give you some time to relax and get to know each other.

Good luck.

I agree but when you find that lady that you are comfortable with then you can really ask her if she is up for the challenge as well.  Could be a lot of fun trying.

really mind blowing (no pun intended) orgasm or 2 so-so pops?  Sometimes it is more about the journey than the destination.

All the hobbyists are studs, well hung, handsome and hot as hell, stand to attention at a moment's notice and cum like porn stars on demand, copiously and as often as you could ever want.

I would really love to have the providers comment on how often MSOG really happens, but I am sure the ladies will remain sweetly silent. And that is aside from the question posed above as to whether going for a solid hour, or a wild 15 minutes, with one pop isn't better than working to get those three pops in. This is meant to be enjoyable, not a challenge.

One of the revelations of this hobby has been how truly sweet and kind the ladies are, in addition to being sexy as hell, great in bed and just good people. Sexy models, Oscar-quality actresses and Olympic level athletes. These things I know to be true, and consider this a blanket thanks, my dears for I adore you all.

The myths about the guys - well, those reviews and these posts are supposed to be works of fiction, right?

Nice job psych101, sums up my experience to-date exactly.

No, in fact I'd say less then half the men I see are able to pop a second time. The beauty of seconds rounds though, is that even if the fireworks don't go off, its still a lot of fun trying to set them off

The number of pops has to do equally with the lady, myself and many other factors. And if I have one, two or (help my heart) three, that number is not necessarily indicative of the quality of my time with the lady in question. I would dare to say this is probably true for most folks.

Though, I dost think thoust waxeth a bit poetic about the ladies. Some are indeed ALL of that and more. Just as many are normal lovely ladies, and a fair number are challenged scheduling more than one appointment more than an hour in advance.

As for the myths about MSOG and ladies O's, well, lets just say that some are true and some are not.

"... as I ever was", to borrow from Toby Keith.

Yes, it amuses me too, reading guys' recounts of 2nd pops a few minutes apart from first.
I am in my 40s.
Had a second cup in a 1 h session just a few times, when the partner was really good and extra attractive for me. Even then, it really felt like I was forcing that second cup.

Since then, decided that, for me, this is simply not a priority. So, I just go as long as i can (and want!) and then in the remaining time, enjoy whatever she has to offer. Those I patronize, they usually do good massage

I would prefer to do it all night and have three or four pops, but as long as I can still do it all night, even if I only cum once, or maybe twice. that's still ok by me.

and I agree with your time line. I was in my mid/late forties when time management started to become an issue. I can usually time it so I cum at about 55 min, just perfect for an hour session. lol Even in a two hour session, I rarely can finish twice. Starting is no problem, it's finishing that is the issue. If a woman has great oral skills, or gives a great hand job, I can usually reach that second finish, but cumming twice inside a condom in a two hour period just isn't happening for me at my age.